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I am strong, intelligent and independent. I choose to submit because I want to, not because I have to. I will not kneel before you just because you tell me to. That kind of respect must be earned. But understand, that is what I seek. A man that is worthy of my trust.



I still consider myself fairly new to the lifestyle, so I am looking to learn and grow. How far can I be pushed? how much can I take? I am not really sure, but cant wait to find out.



The mental part of the lifestyle is just as important as the physical side. You know what they say, take the mind, the body will follow.



Of course the most important thing to me is to please. Nothing makes me happier than hearing my Dom whisper in my ear, telling me what a good girl I am. It encourages me and makes me only want to please him more.
















5/17/2016 12:14:36 AM
How do these things happen? People come into your life and make such a huge impression. Even though You chose someone else, You made a positive difference in my life. I will never forget You Sir. RIP
4/13/2015 9:00:54 AM
so things didn't work out again.   It is funny somehow.   You were very adamant that i stop communicating with other Doms.  You actually seemed a little jealous.   I know that my wanting to take things slow was frustrating to You, yet You said You were ok with it.   Then You asked for me to be patient as You had some things in Your life that You needed to take care of.   I understood that, i thought You were worth it.  So we met a few more times, and then things got busy for me.  I thought You understood it was a temporary situation since You know what i do for work.  so i reach out to You and ask to see You.  You respond that You have "test drove" 3 other subs since i last saw You.   Interesting choice of words.   it is sad that You seem to be more interested in getting sucked off than in finding someone of quality.    i guess honesty and communication aren't as important as You said they were.  They will never be the sub for You that i could have been.  But then again, You aren't the Dom i thought You were.   
4/12/2015 9:50:31 PM
So much for second chances. I don't know why I agreed to it. Just meant getting hurt.
2/21/2015 9:13:55 PM
Sometimes it's hard to be patient.
2/16/2015 8:47:45 PM
So sometimes you have to give someone a second chance. That is what I have decided to do. Circumstances change
2/12/2015 2:04:19 PM
why does someone delete a message without even reading it?  how rude!
2/2/2015 12:35:21 PM
so poly is an interesting concept.  Does it work?  I think it does work for some.  I think those that it works for truly understand the idea and work very hard to be honest about it.  I imagine it can be difficult at times, but if you truly want it to work, you will.

then there are those that use "poly" as an excuse to fuck whomever they want whenever they want and then return to their "significant other" (guaranteed sex) and claim they are poly.  what bull!   poly is not something that you bring up after the fact.  "gosh sub, did i fail to mention that i was poly?  i am sorry.  but the fact that i have been fucking anyone that says yes should prove that i am poly."    this also explains why some Dom's want stupid subs.     just saying!
1/3/2015 9:01:08 PM
so how does the journey start?  Who reaches out to whom?  is it ok for me to reach out to You?  or is that considered disrespectful?  Do i wait to hear from You?  what about after we have been chatting for a few days?  do You expect me to initiate contact every day?  every other day?  do You want to initiate all the conversations?   Everyone has different protocols.  What is a girl to do?
11/24/2014 2:12:09 PM
WTF!  What is it with all the married "Doms" that have vanilla relationships and are looking for a stupid woman to have kinky sex with behind their wives back.   Grow a pair!  Just because i am submissive doesn't mean i am interested in helping you cheat on your wife.  If you don't like the relationship you are in, change it or leave it.  As a woman, i find it disgusting that you would think i would want to be the "other woman" in your life.  Your wife deserves to know the truth.  If you don't respect her that much, you shouldn't be married to her!!!!
7/14/2014 12:06:02 PM
so frustrated!   If You aren't willing to spend the time, don't contact me.  this is not a game to me.  Why reach out and say things You don't mean.  I am sure there are plenty of subs/slaves here that are willing to play Your game.   I am not one of them. 
5/7/2014 9:22:04 PM
So frustrated!! What is the point of playing games? Does it make you feel powerful? Does it charge your ego?
LeCuckoldress
 
 Age: 21
 New York, New York