finding a Mistress to serve who's shares similar interests with me and who is sincere has been difficult. In all fairness and respect to the current Dominant Women on here now, it's been several are since I was last on this site. People and faces change. My biggest interests are loss of physical control (i am a very big/strong man) leather, strap on worship/play, inescapable bondage, chastity training, forced fem, sissy/slut training, and pleasing and attempting to satisfy whatever tastes She may have. I like the loss of physical control when serving because my limits can be pushed by my Mistress and She can explore what she enjoys at my expense. I'm a lot of fun and as I've gotten older, more open to things I didn't have any I interest in as a 20yr old college student. Just finding a good connection with a Woman where there's communications and honesty is a great start. Difficult in this day and age. Yeah, I'm a tad cynical but hoping I can be proven wrong by this search.

I am fiercely loyal and my word means everything to me. I'm not seeking sex, rather the connection and intimacy that is found in a Mistress/sub relationship - what vanilla people don't understand about our kinks. I'm educated with a bachelors degree, gainfully employed, dependable transportation, and I have all my teeth. I'm articulate, intelligent (I think so) and have a real knack for cooking. I have exceptionally large hands which has proven to be an excellent tool in a massage. I also don't drink OR play video games. At all. 😀 Other than my twisted perversions, I'm as American as apple pie!