7/12/2014 4:57:44 AM: The Huh? moment of  the  week. Yesterday  approached by a  sub that wanted  to   chat with Me  because  I  had piqued  his  interest  with My  profile.After   3 or 4 messages,  back and  forth , about  the  dynamic  with My partner and  subs . Declared he wasn't  interested anymore  because he was  looking   for a 'long term monogamous relationship'.My  advice  to all that are  looking  for a  'long term monogamous relationship'.  DO NOT approach someone  who is openly  in long term  polyamorous relationship!It's that  simple .  I know  some people  are deceptive  about their  relationship  or  marital  status but  when someone  is  totally  clear  about this  WHY  even  waste  Our  time !If  you  take the  time  to read a  profile  fully  then  there will be less wasted   time on everyone's  part !This rant in honor of   Literacy   Volunteers and Reading  Rainbow  ! 

7/10/2013 6:22:11 PM:  PLEASE  read  the profile and  the journal.  Don't assume that  because  you think  that you would  suit  Me as a  submissive or slave  that I will  think the same.  Conversation is more than  My response  to your  e-mail and assuming more  makes  you look  foolish and desperate for attention.

6/2/2013 9:55:10 AM: Is  making a simple request to chat outside of collarme on other  messengers  formats that are  more 'conversational' out of line?  I don't meet anyone without chatting with them first. It helps Me to get  beyond the sometimes miniscule amount of  information offered up in a profile. I have  2 submissives that came to Me with  limited  amount of information in their  profiles  for personal reasons but  speaking  to Me  brought  out much more and 13 years  later  one is still My slave and  6 years later is My proudly collared  boy.   If you want to find something  you have to be willing to share of  yourself to get the same in return.

7/6/2012 1:06:45 PM:    No More 'Assless Chaps' !!! Chaps : A pair of leather or suede leggings, connected by a belt, to cover and protect the legs of a motorcycle or horse rider. Chaps have no crotch or seat (ass). If they had those things, they would be called pants. Riding chaps, for both riding bikes and horses do not have a zipper on the inside of the leg. It will rub the rider on a horse, and damage the paint job on a bike. Those type of chaps with a zipper on the inside leg are fetish wear and more often than not called 'bar chaps'. Call them generically 'chaps', whether they be riding or bar chaps, but please stop calling them 'assless chaps' that makes you look as if  you are ignorant of even the basic terminology of your lifestyle.

7/12/2010 1:55:58 PM: 'The Dynamic of S and m isn't just about power and control ... it's about focus, total absorption into the essence of your being. Meeting his gaze and seeing the real hunger in his eyes. It's a controlled burn, rather than a wildfire; it's about the total connection, Dominant to submissive, not disconnected activities leading to a fuck.'..... DJDaddyNY