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As a Dom I cherishes my submissive, in the knowledge that the gift that the submissive gives is the greatest gift of all. As a Dom I am demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to me, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift. As a Dom I am in control of myself first and foremost, so that I may control others. As a stern and demanding I can cause a submissive to cry real tears. As their consummate lover, I will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character. In times of trouble, I will leave my role behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. I will be quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. Never will I ask a submissive to put them before their career or family, just to satisfy their own pleasure. To win a submissive's mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, I know I must first win their trust. I will show a submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. I must always show a submissive that their guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of the submissive's attention, that They are a person they can learn from, and that they can trust their direction. I am romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, I will fight for my submissive's honor. A Dom also needs to proves to their submissive that they are someone they can lean on, and depend on. When it comes time to teach my submissive their lessons of obedience, I am a strong and a unyielding professor. I will accept no flaw, nothing less then perfection from my student. Never use discipline without a good reason. If I do punish my submissive, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand. I am always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear my submissive's wants and needs. I will take take the time to learn my submissive's limits and knowing that as their trust of grows, so will they. As a Dom, I will never demand ritual behavior from my submissive. My submissive responds to me out of a desire to please . Compliance comes from the desire to please, not the fear of punishment. As a Dom, I am secure enough to laugh at myself and the absurdities of life, open-minded enough to learn new things, strong enough to grow. I understand the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given. My tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. I understand that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of us know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.
ebonyape
 
 Age: 32
 Clovis, New Mexico