I am a Sadist, enjoy using a sub female, for her pain, reaching her limits. It can be from mild, to wow, depending on her limits and wants. I travel with my job, I will be in one place any where from a month, to 6 months. Not looking for ltr, but a play partner, while in town. I do use a safe word with my subs, so they can stop the play at any time. Along with the Sadist side of me, I enjoy putting a sub on her knees, for my pleasure. Lets talk about your pain limits.