I am no longer married my wife.  My wife died three years ago and she was the oldest woman I'd ever been with and she was 37 years old. I ran a pan fetish BDSM or organization in Tucson Arizona for many many years. As a result I had many groupies. In doing so I gave Given many lectures, classes, demonstrations and Ive even done perance art. If you want to meet the real deal and not just some computer hack  I believe Im the person you need to speak with. I am ultimately looking for a relationship but at the very least I'm looking for friends with benefits. I will treat you like gold.