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Friends:
katemarlowemusictoliverayneydays

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Dont call me Mistress, Goddess or Your Highness. I am NOT a female supremacist.

All friend requests will be denied unless you have met me in person.

I have a beautiful slavegirl raine with the profile rayneydays. She is proudly married to me and lives with me 24/7.

I am a mostly dominant switch here to have conversations with other intelligent practitioners of BDSM. I practice SM and Ds actively in my day to day life and enjoy conversations about same. Intelligence is a turn on, so talking to me about your favorite books, weblinks to articles or what have you will get you far.

Im NOT looking for a Dom or Domme except in friendship. IF you wish to talk to me out of friendship, go ahead and talk.

I am LOOKING FOR / OPEN TO local play partners, lovers, and/or submissives. I'm not cut out for an M/s dynamic at this time. No online only or long distance relationships. NO ABDL.

For a longer profile, see my listing here under the profile name Elorin.

Collarspace mail that is one word or even one sentence will be deleted without response.

Disclaimer I am a SADIST. If you arent masochistic or a rope bunny, please dont apply.

Note 2-23-2018 If you ask me a question that is answered on my profile I will just block you.

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12/30/2017 8:34:09 PM
The profile says no long distance.
It doesn't matter if you're cute. Want to be a sex slave. Are willing to relocate.
I am not willing to undertake any long distance relationships (especially not "move to me" relationships) at this time.

~Ms. Elorin

12/24/2017 12:59:56 AM
to sub4sum
I guess YOU can't read.
Or use logic.
Regardless of your willingness to move, the relationship has to be begun, and interest generated, for you to move. I'm not willing, or interested, in pursuing that part of the relationship.
I don't want someone to move to live in with me.
You can't live with me as I don't have the space or the inclination to move a virtual stranger into my home and private places.
I have NO interest in a relationship begun and maintained online, no matter how willing you are to travel or move.
I'M NOT INTERESTED.

10/26/2017 3:18:14 AM
Seriously considering taking all long distance "considerations" off the table for new relationships.  I just don't have the bandwidth.

9/13/2017 10:18:16 PM
How to get to know someone
1) Read their profile
2) Ask a question. One specific to their profile shows them you have done the groundwork.
3) Volunteer something about yourself. At a loss for what to volunteer? Tell them the answer to the question you ask, as if it was applied to you.

IF they just answer your question and don't return a question, ask them why. If they don't want to get to know you, or perhaps they want to learn about you from the things you ask and the way you guide the conversation.

If they answer your question and ask one in return, then you have a dialogue.

~E

8/10/2017 4:31:34 PM
If you don't fit my criteria I am going to be honest. This isn't being rude. It is saving my valuable time and yours. If you still want to chat and get to know me I am happy to do so.

7/2/2017 6:00:47 AM
San Antonio PRIDE festival was AWESOME! I wish I'd worn better shoes so I could have lasted through the parade.

6/25/2017 9:28:30 PM
Temple of Flesh was fun. There's always lots of eye candy. Played with rope some tonight. Watched some others play. Went home early (have to work tomorrow).

~Ms. Elorin

6/20/2017 8:31:57 PM
I am interested in service oriented submissives.
Service, by my definition, is a useful or practical skill put to use for my (the dominant's) benefit.
It does not mean licking my pussy, oral "worship", face sitting, or smothering. The last two are actually hard limits of mine.
It does mean helping with the dishes sometimes, or vacuuming or sweeping up while I'm getting ready for a party.
It could mean cleaning toys after a party and putting them away so I can easily pack a bag or play the next time.
It could mean figuring out how to stop the weed that is growing between two blocks of my driveway, or looking up for me how to remove the stump in my yard.
It could mean prepping me for a party, scrubbing my back, brushing my hair, or giving me a pedicure.
Service could take many forms, and I like it to be catered to the submissive serving me, and his/her skills.
If you are good with books and reading, maybe catalogue a shelf of books in my library for me.
If you are good with the internet, maybe learn some HTML and help me get my website back up and running again.
If you are good with your hands, maybe install shelves in my closet in the play room to display toys.
Massage therapy? Yes please, but maybe it will be me and maybe it will be my lover who put his back out who needs the attention.
~Ms. Elorin

4/8/2017 4:00:43 AM
My brother is here, and while I don't know how often I'll use the play room, it won't be because of him. He's kink friendly if not kinky, and I feel comfortable with him here and doing a play session.

Plus, creepy stalker types now have to deal with both of us rather than just me and the dogs if it comes to that.

~Me

3/9/2017 7:42:08 PM
It's been a whirlwind. My brother is coming to live with me, so I don't know how often I'll use the play room. We'll have to see. I will feel safer than living alone, a woman and her pets, in a big neighborhood.

1/20/2017 7:30:01 PM
New policy:
People who start their email with "Hello Mistress" will be blocked and deleted. Same with Goddess. And Your Highness. FFS, learn to READ.

11/9/2016 5:03:28 PM
If you can't figure out how long of an email to send me, you didn't read my profile. If you didn't read my profile you are wasting my time and yours.

~Ms. Elorin

8/9/2013 4:31:13 PM

On assumptions

 

Why is it assumed that because I'm kinky and have the fetishes you are interested in, that I will be interested in you? Don't I get a say in the matter?

 

I happen to be VERY picky about who I will and will not meet in person, much less play with, much LESS have come live with me and serve me. You want to meet me, great. Contact me with an e-mail with more than one line to it. Use words with more than two syllables. Use concepts that go farther than your genitalia. Get to know ME, not just what fetishes I might happen to "dispense".

 

You want me to play with you? Attend the parties that I attend IN SAN ANTONIO, TX. Or, get to know me really well and tell me when you'll be in San Antonio. I'll bring a toybag to your hotel, along with a chaperone, and we can play. Or, pay for my time as a professional dominatrix. It will still be in a hotel room you pay for, but you'll get the play you want and crave, rather than whatever happens to be in whatever toybag I happen to grab that night.

 

 

You want to serve me in my home? 1) Get to know me online 2)Meet me in person 3)Play with me at least 2 or 3 times. 4) Petition to serve me in my home. And I'll think about it.

 

I am not a fetish dispenser. Just because I like sissy maids does not meant I want you to be my sissy maid. It means if we are compatible and I like you, I MIGHT want you to be my sissy maid.

 

Let's keep that in mind, shall we?

 

~Ms. Elorin


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missemma81
 
 Age: 21
 Hesperia, Michigan