6/29/2017 5:09:48 AM: ON FIRE TODAY!!!!! Need a sub/slave to mentor train before i go crazy

6/20/2017 7:53:58 AM: Really getting tired of all the 'i want this' and when you offer to at least discuss it with them to see if it's a possibility, the second it becomes a reality they run and hide..only to come back later and ignore you.I've been in this lifestyle over 30 years now, and I'm beginning to think the old school approach of respect, honor, dignity and honesty is no longer a trait wanted or desired in a dominant.

11/18/2015 5:28:38 AM: Difficult day...stress  is high...wish i had  someone to just release my stress on

1/28/2014 5:29:03 AM: For those Dominants who really want to know...HOW to pick up a slave girl (This is totally done sarcastically and borrowed from another slave form another website..but truly what most 'doms' think:   After reading 3 posts in as many weeks from male Doms moaning that slave girls on are really rude, never reply, and are fake profiles, it occurred to me that no-one has ever compiled a list of tips and tricks on how to pickup slave-girls on - So all these Doms are just making the same mistakes over and over. Because I'm a slightly sarcastic person, I thought I'd do it in reverse! With that in mind, I present: How NOT to pick up a slave-girl on - Misc Tips and Tricks Got a lot to say? Whatever you do, don't put in paragraphs! Slaves can only handle a single paragraph of information at once, so you need to make the one paragraph as long as possible in order to hold her attention! As a Master, you have so much to teach the slave. Even if you've just bought your first whip and the slave you're talking to has 40 years experience, she is just dying to learn from your accumulated life knowledge. Remember to release it slowly, as it may overwhelm her! Don't spell-check your message before sending it. Slaves want a fast-moving, action-packed assertive Master to fuck and beat them silly. Careful and precise are not the kinda of qualities slaves look for in a Master. Fast and dangerous is dommly! Remember, is full of predators who just want to take slaves and use them for sex. In order to get a slave to use for sex, you need to first warn the slave about all the predators on , she'll thank you for the warning and feel like she owes you, and then you'll then be able to take her and use her for sex, saving her from the predators. Slaves LOVE domestic duties. Talk 'dirty' in your initial emails by describing the cooking, cleaning, washing, and other household chores you'll make her do when she realises your her destiny - it'll get her juices flowing and she'll be begging for your collar in no-time. Ensure you profile picture is of the largest penis you can find on google image search, and then badly photoshop to make it even larger. Girls love for penis is equal to its circumference TIMES length, so don't let reality or physics hinder your manhood! Does her profile say 'don't message me unless <BLAH>'? This is a test. She wants a strong master who doesn't let a small obstacle get in his way. To pass with flying colours you need to message her immediately regardless of the condition! If her fetishes even allude to humiliation, degradation, or anything like that. Be sure to start your message with 'Hi Whore'. It shows your comfortable with meeting her needs even if they're outside of your comfort zone. Is she 'In a relationship' or 'Owned and collared' to someone else? Well then you need to message her quickly before its too late - she is suffering every day she isn't kneeling before you sucking your dick! Be sure to ask her about her figure in your opening email. Girls love it when they meet tight, unrealistic, expectations imposed by strangers. 'Hi. Are you size 6-8?' is one of the hottest, most powerful introductory messages you can send! Does her profile say she's a slave? Then ensure you refer to her as slave in your messages. 'Hi slave!' 'Where you from, slave?' By respecting her title your showing that you're master material! Plus you're getting her used to being called your slave even before she's collared, it'll be a natural transition! - pretty smart hey! Does she think she's a lesbian? No girl can resist your super-massive penis and awesome dommly brain. You just need to show both to her in large doses and she'll be cured in no time! Ensure you ask her for sex or sexual play within 5 minutes of first talking to her. Whatever you do, do not leave it till after your chatting comfortably - the later you leave it the more likely another Dom will sneak in and steal her! Go to extra effort to contact slaves from the other side of the country. There's obviously no good Masters in their town or else they'd be collared by now! Plus it shows a huge level of commitment to offer to fly across the country and slaves need a Master with your level of commitment. Ensure your about me is correctly capitalised for high protocol. Slaves see this/This style/Style of/oF writing/WRITing AND/AnD are turned on by its rigid, controlling, doctrine. Use it as often as possible. Is a slave girl not responding to your emails? Slaves without Masters are like goldfish, so often forget to reply to emails. She is lacking your structure in her life so desperately that she can't even do a simple task like reply to emails! Message her again, more and more frequently, to ensure she doesn't miss her once in a lifetime opportunity to be yours. Make sure you ask slave girls to Skype within the first few messages. Slave girls are just dying to strip on webcam for you and prove to you how attractive and sexual they really are, you shouldn't let them down. Even those that have never done it before can easily be turned by your domly charms! Make sure your profile contains a disclaimer stating that your data can't be viewed by universities for research purposes. Silly little slave girls obviously don't understand law either, so you can use it later as an example of how relatively intelligent you really are. She'll think you're super smart - and super smart Doms get the slaves! Be clear you don't want to go to munches or local kink events. Slave girls don't see it as a red flag at all - it makes you mysterious - and slave girls love mysterious Doms. I mean who'se hotter: shadow-hugging Bat Man or open-and-friendly Inspector Gordon? Remember 'negging' from 'The Game'? Slave girls need it too, but scaled up to much higher intensities. Insult their photos, fetishes, and about me. It will lower their self esteem to the point where you can make your move without what's left of their soul offering a shred of resistance - and is guaranteed to get you a good, emotionally healthy, slave in no time! Try to take control of slaves finances in your first few messages. As a Dom you're obviously more efficient at everything, and by taking control of her money you show your slave that you're going to keep her for the long haul! (Well, until she retires and stops earning you money at least) Got no fetishes in common? No problems, contact her any way! The old saying is 'opposites attract', and its not like the slave has any say in day to day activities, right? Tell the slave in your first few messages that you'll take away all her connections to the outside world - its a super sexy thought for her; as she can't run away from you ever! It shows that you're a true romantic and a believer in happily ever after. Remember that slaves want to follow orders. Order her to turn on her webcam and strip for you, or come over and suck your cock right now. If she doesn't - she's obviously not a very good slave and you've just saved yourself years of heartache trying to train a brat. Are you in your late 60s and looking for an 18 year old? Speak broadly about how knowledgeable and experienced you are (don't cite examples - the slave just finished school so hates citations), and lament that no-one under 65 can have any level of experience with training a slave or fulfilling their womanly needs. Since everyone knows age is obviously equal to experience and thus skill, you'll get the slaves lining up fast! For efficiency, make sure you send the same message to every slave you ever contact. The less time you spend writing messages the less messages you send out, meaning the less sex you have. Slaves feel really special when they see that other slaves were blessed to receive the same message as them, and you should bless as many slaves as your free time and bandwidth can allow. Never pass up the opportunity to use more impressive sounding words where a simpler one will do. One of the easiest to use is 'myself'. It makes you sound really intelligent when you use it in a place where 'me' would be appropriate. eg. 'My last slave used to visit myself and make me dinner.'. Whah! that's making ME horny just writing it! Write a huge, long, boring, message, and in the middle put in something like ' and as you read this you are getting very sleepy, focussing on your breathing, and slowly passing... out.. and out your go. You are now under my control, you will now message me back a picture of your tits, and then wake up. Do this now.'. Slave girls love losing control to someone they don't know, and people can obviously read English prose off a computer screen while under a hypnotic trance. (Taken from an actual collarme message) Full stop, comma, semi-colon, and colon too hard to reach on your phones keyboard? That's ok! Since you have a picture of your penis as your avatar, the slave will be too busy salivating over it to notice. Grammar is over-rated anyway, due to your amazing intellect your prose remains clear and easily understood in all cases. We all know slaves see their Master as the most important thing in the world to them, right? Make sure that your profile reads as though you are already the most important person in the world! Use grand imagery to describe your soft, yet firm hand, your overwhelming intellectual and physical strength, and your gift of pain and pleasure. Write it so that when a slave reads it, her mind goes in the right head space and ensures she's is ready to go as soon as you choose her! Make sure you send erotica to slave-girls you contact. Slave-girls have no imagination so will have an empty wank-bank unless you help her out. A nice easy one to start with is describing what a day would be like for her if she was your slave. She'd wake you up late in the morning with a blow job, then cook you breakfast and go down on you while you eat it, and then you'd take her into the play room, tie her up, and make her give you blow jobs. Afterwards, you'd retire to the lounge room and watch something on TV while she gives you a blow job... etc. Its really easy to write and gives the slave something to think about you with after you've logged off for the night! Very early on, ask her if she 'has no baggage'. Do not clarify what your exact subjective definition of baggage is - let the slave girl do the judging for you - saving your powerful domly brain for other tasks and weeding out needy subs before their demand for respect, love, and belonging ruins your style. (Inspired by @Starri's comment) Are you too busy with domly matters to get a job? It's perfectly understandable! What with spamming , playing XBox, sleeping in, and getting stoned your life is full and a job would obviously cramp your style. This is what slaves are for! In one of your initial messages, ask if she's 'financially stable'. Making the slave work full-time will give her something to do between chores, which should help keep the whining down long term (Inspired by @Starri's comment) Are you hitting on a sub old enough to be your mother? Remember your secret weapon - your highly-functional manhood! Older women are sick and tired of old men going soft and floppy during sex - and since yours is fully functional you are Jesus Christ to them! Use grand imagery to describe your stamina and throbbing erections. Remind them of the awesome ploughs they had in their youth - and then offer them a way to experience it again. (Inspired by @Starri's comment) Remember some helpful short-cuts available in English writing: ur, your, and you're are the same word just spelt differently. 2, to, two and too also have the exact same sound and meaning, just differing in spelling. Same as their, there, and they're. The average dom could just pick their favourite and use it, but, to increase your apparent intelligence, mix and match variations in order to make your vocabulary appear larger. (Inspired by @Sparke_Plug's comment) Is the kinkiest thing you want to do to a chick to have unprotected sex with her? Since males can't catch any form of STDs during unprotected sex (the fluids only flow one way, silly), the ONLY thing you need to worry about is getting her pregnant! So, ask if she is on the pill or has the hormone implant! If she says yes, it is completely safe for you to fuck her unprotected. If she's worried about getting STDs from you, remind the poor silly little girl that you, as both a man and even more importantly a Dom, are obviously clean. (Inspired by @Shakti108's comment) Does the slave-girl say that sex is not her top priority, or that emotional connection is required first? Not a problem. As soon as she looks into your deep, wise, eyes, touches your soft yet firm domly skin, and collapses into your strong, Domly arms, the required emotional connection will just form naturally. This is so guaranteed to happen that you can take this as a given in your conversations with the slave, and speak as if it has already happened. (Inspired by @TheFallingGrain's comment) Does the slave girls profile contain a sombre part? Is there a photo where she isn't smiling? Even if her profile is as happy as can be you can bet its a façade and she's ruined inside. Well, it's obvious that having a Dom would complete her and revive her self esteem. Let her know of your commitment to make her love herself again and see herself as the wonderful person she could be, if only she were to let you tie her up and ass-fuck her every other weekend. (inspired by @Shakti108's comment) If the slave-girl talks back, holds an opinion, doesn't like your life's choices, or even says the dreaded 'no' - respond with a domly 'HOW DARE YOU'! Then to really put her in her place throw in a 'THIS IS WHY NO-ONE LIKES YOU'. Once she talks back, the only way to prove that you're a potential Master is to show that you can discipline effectively. This defiance must be punished at all costs as she MUST learn from her mistake in order to become your slave. Slaves enjoy punishment (see how many of them have it as a fetish on their profile!), so it follows she will enjoy the dressing down you're giving her, and, shortly, will see just how truly Domly you actually are and apologise for her transgression. (adapted from @nature_girl's comment, plus a few others alluded to it) Until you meet a slave girl in person where she can experience your soft yet firm touch and powerful yet loving gaze, your most powerful communication medium is words. If you're afraid of overpowering a girl in your first message, just send the simple, elegant, message 'hi'. It is a beautiful, simple, heart-to-heart request for connection, and the greatest known example of 2-letter poetry. Any decent human being will be moved to tears by such a message, especially if it came from a powerful dom. Any decent slave-girl will respond as soon as she stops crying tears of joyous bliss. (Inspired by @begssirtocum's comment) Remember to pick a screen name that will also cause the girls to contact you. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people on and your desired screen name might be taken! That's ok! Just prefix it with additional titles to prove that you're better then the person who took your desired screen name! For example: 'Ra' is probably a nice guy. 'SirRa' is a good Dom. LordSirRa is an even better Dom. MasterLordSirRa is an awesome Dom. KingMasterLordSirRa is an exceptional Dom. GodKingMasterLordSirRaWithDonkeySizedPenisFastSportCarAndLotsOfMoneyAndGoodAtSex is the best Dom ever, and, from all the names presented in the paragraph - the one a slave-girl is most likely to contact - even if just because he shows up in every search result ever Has a slave girl mistakenly selected 'Mistress' or 'Domme' on her profile? Its best not to bring attention to it straight away, instead message her with a normal message starting with 'hi slave'. She will see her mistake and correct it quietly, and then feel indebted to you for pointing it out. And that's all I've thought of so far. Any funny ones added to the comments will get added to the main list. I plan to link to this writing whenever we get a post from a male dom complaining about lack of picking up - and then just pray they understand sarcasm :-)

12/26/2013 5:49:24 PM: Why geeks make the best doms (Not written by me saw it on and agree) I'm a Geek (     1. INTELLIGENCE. Give me a smart Dom any day over the Domly Lord Macho Man. The smart guy knows He doesn't know it all and spends an inordinate amount of time continually learning to be a better Master. 2. PATIENCE. They're methodical. They're used to solving complex problems. They even welcome such challenges and they know that there are subs out there that are complex and challenging as hell. These subs do not intimidate a geeky Dom. 3. APPRECIATION OF A SMART SUB. A geeky Dom loves a sub with a brain, they know You can't fix stupid. She may not be the prettiest or have the most beautiful body around but they don't care... They LOVE smart! Smart trumps physical beauty any day. They aren't intimidated by such a sub and in fact welcome her wit and insight and love her mind. A sub with brains loves this right back... so many Doms can't handle her intelligence. 4. THEY LOVE A PUZZLE. Lord knows that a smart sub can present a puzzle to most Doms. Not so the geeky Dom, He is inquisitive and loves to solve a puzzle, (it's His nature) especially the puzzle of an intelligent and independent woman who craves to submit to the right Man. He will take his time and use his laser like mind to delve deep into her psyche, figure her out and put all the pieces together and claim her as His before she realizes what hit her (pun not intended). 5. MASTERS OF THE MIND FUCK. Intelligent subs can be quite a handful. They often outsmart their wannabe Doms seeing right through them and quickly getting bored and frustrated (insert eye rolling subbie here). Ah, but the geeky Dom can see right to the core of this subbie, knows what makes her tick and can wrap his mind around her essence and whip her little brain into a chaotic frenzy and drop her to her knees before she knows what's happening and she'll never see it coming. Trust me, we appreciate this ability... we crave this ability... we need this ability. 6. QUIET TIMES, NATURE WALKS AND NPR. A geeky Dom doesn't have to be all 'macho' all the time. They are confident enough in their dominance to let go and be content to hold Their sub in Their arms, spending time on walks or sitting on the back deck on a spring afternoon, listening to the birds chirping, watching the squirrels and deer romping about and just enjoying 'being'. The bonding achieved doing this is incalculable. His sub is putty in His hands. 7. BETTER LOVERS. Oh yes! Lord Domly Dom thinks He's a great lover because he has a cock Ha!. Not so the geeky Dom. He's studied a woman's anatomy and physiology, he knows the rhyme and reason behind her sexuality and uses it to his advantage thus making him a most exquisite lover. And when he has claimed His sub, he has studied her as a person even further and knows intimately what makes her tick, what drives her wild, what brings her to her knees begging for more.