Looking for a nice woman - lady in my age group 50s to early 60s who is submissive and who will take orders from a man in private. To me a DS relationship includes love, sex, friendship,control,some punishment discipline and other things in no particular order.   Depending on the two of us I am interested in a long term situation with the right woman. I do want sex a few times a week and I do enjoy giving mild discipline.  Im looking for a woman who has a desire to truly belong to me, who wants to submit to a man and please.

I don't like the word slave but I like the obedience and control.  It's wrong on one level to want that but it's absolutely hot on another.  I'd like to see my woman naked, maybe feed her dinner while she is kneeling naked, have her in some kind of bondage to warm up for the rest of the day or night.  

In public I am looking for a mostly equal relationship and absolutely don't cross over into things that interfere with family or work.  A good first date would be a place to eat and talk privately.  A second date would give us the chance to increase the heat.  In a longer term relationship I would expect more and the right to control and punish my girl, play with and use her of course while she has her needs also met.

I have met a few women looking for DS but usually not from this site.  I've also talked to many more.  People want all kinds of things.  I was never into serious pain, more mild stuff, I don't like the doormat or mouse but would rather be with someone who is smart.  I also don't respect the type of dominant who just uses a woman and doesn't have any interest in her well being but that does mean that even though it is private between us I may regulate certain things in my womans life if I don't feel she is behaving the way I feel she should at home or outside.

If you are interested in meeting write to me and tell me about yourself, what you are seeking and where you are located. Stay safe.