Long overdue rewrite:
Name is no longer 100% accurate I am open to a wider range of possibilities but this is still true-
I do not want to be someone's mildly kinky boyfriend, I crave being controlled, and ultimately owned.
So who am I?
-nerdy (games, sci-fi, fantasy, non-fiction, politics, you name it.)
-submissive (extremely so, passive, and docile come to mind. So does the word pet.)
-demi-sexual (I can't be sexually interested in someone I lack an emotional connection to and in my case that usually has to involve D/s or M/s dynamics)
-genderqueer (this is the best way to describe it, I am somewhat soft and femme though I do not always appear that way. I don't know quite where I fit on the gender spectrum and I don't much care. I am definitely not traditionally masculine though.)
What do I hope to find?
Someone who would thrive on controlling me, eventually want me to be there in person (no hurry though!) and loves service as much as they love control.
Someone who likes mental play, including hypnosis, brainwashing, the occult... make me your toy, your pet. Mold me into what you want me to be.
Someone who loves good food. Seriously. I am an excellent cook and can make delicious things with almost any ingredients.
That is a good start. But I sound interesting to you I hope you will come find me :)