“The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.”

Houston, TX bound for a job transfer & promotion. Woot Woot

I finally received a job transfer/promotion to my corporate offices in Houston that I have been working for for over a year. I will be commuting there for now... but all is good.

I am so excited....and a little terrified at the same time. I was recently released from service amicably by a truly wonderful Dom whom I still adore and am still friends with. Though the prospect of doing this without a bit of support is daunting. I have the inner core, determination and strength to accomplish this... I am just unnerved a tad.

I cant wait for June.

Blessings and Love

It is so rare that I rant... but I can't sleep and I'm irritated.

One of the things I love about this lifestyle. Freedom to express our selves in what ever form or fashion that takes. For most of us... honesty is paramount.

For that small few [and growing larger every day] in whom transparency is an issue.... GROW THE F UP.

If you are married... state you are married. If you are cheating on your significant other...SAY IT. If you are in this just for a kinky booty call. OK... LAY IT OUT THERE. If you are new to the lifestyle. BY GOD LET THE OTHER PERSON KNOW.

Chances are there are a lot of people that are going to play, serve or hang with you even if you are married or with someone and stepping out for whatever reasons... or don't mind someone new to the lifestyle... or that are good with NSA. That is why we are here... doing what we do... and having a great time.

THE POINT IS BE HONEST.

As an S&M player bottom/sub/slave in the BDSM realm... it can be dangerous for you not to be forth coming. It does not mean that I wont consider playing with you... but it does mean certain things are off the table until I am confident that you have had the right mentoring, training or experience.

As for the booty call... holy cow... be honest... Again... if i am not in a contract... or collared ... or in a closed relationship... NSA may be what I am looking for. Give me that opportunity to either agree or move on. No judgements. I am not going to stalk you... throw a fit and cry and beg.... I have more important endeavors in my life than being that needy, weak spined, clingy ass woman.

Stop with the lying, the smoke screens, the excuses... the wild and crazy stories about how you were in Japan when Godzilla came through... you drove your car off a bridge...your dog ate every phone, cell phone, computer and way of communication in your house after he found and ate your 10 year old neighbors, brothers, sisters aunts, cousins medical marijuana stash hidden in a top secret underground bunker.

Really... i pretty much know when you are full of crap...i just may be kicking back to see how really asinine you really are. Then I will Peace out as i shake my head.

OK... rant done... I am going back to bed.

For the rest of you... have a great week!!

Namaste

Wonderful post on subspace and aftercare

http://friskybusinessboutique.com/news/blog/the-endorphin-levels-in-bdsm-a-short-primer-on-sending-a-submissive-into-hyperspace

If two points are destined to touch... the universe will always find a way to make the connection.
Even when all hope seems lost... certain ties cannot be broken. They define who we are. And who we can become.
Across space... across time... along paths we cannot predict... nature always finds a way

There are three things that I've learned in my time on this planet.
One. We are all connected.
Two. Where you end, I begin. And vice versa.
And three. No matter how hard we try to control it... nothing is exactly what it appears to be

[quotes from Touch]

Over the past year.... several have come in and out of my life. Thank You for the opportunity to learn, to teach, to experience & to enjoy. It hasn't always been an easy journey... but I am thankful for the opportunities it to grow and learn and most importantly to learn.

Love & Light

V

Borrowed from YourLordandLady.  This is great!!  Helps cut down on the BS photo stealers to see if the profile is real.   

Here's a useful tip for you folks. If you have questions about a person's authenticity (or if you just want to check everyone) right click on their picture(s) and select "copy image location or copy image URL". Go to images.google.com and click the little camera icon, then paste into the box. That will search for all instances of that picture it can find. Might get nothing, that's a good thing, might get regular old pages that person's signed up on, or you might pop up with a porn star or a website that catalogs fake pictures.

i am not really into putting out negative remarks... but after a recent conversation where a Dominate contacted me first... and  felt the need to ASSUME things He knows nothing about and then try to ram His opinion down my throat...i am stating the following.  

If You don't have anything pleasant to say.. keep it to Yourself.  We all have our own points of view... our own soft and hard lines... our own kinks and ways of expression.... if You don't personally agree with them... TOUGH... Move On.

Uuughhh...

Ending on a positive note... To the rest.... Best wishes in finding what you are seeking and enjoy the journey and play safe.

Love & Light

V