I swear this kink world involves way too much looking and not enough conversation. Feel free to hit me up, Im very personable. What is miserable is that the people just wanting to get off have ruined things for those of us wanting to get deeper.



I am a widower. Id like my next relationship to be female led. It just feels more natural.



Looking to meet a woman who knows what she wants and isnt afraid to speak her mind.



Would like to learn together with that special someone, exploring everything thoroughly.



Somewhat new to the lifestyle. Toyed with it on occasion in the past, but wanting to serve fully and eventually in person 24x7. Craving it if Im being honest.



Im very turned on by women who know exactly what they want and arent afraid to say it or take control when needed or wanted. That doesnt mean Im a doormat all the time, however. I just like strong minded folks. Im fairly alpha in vanilla land but absolutely know my place with regard to dominant women.



Would like to meet someone and begin a relationship either electronically, or physical.



All that said, I realize I am new to this and other ideas or experiences may do something for me or you. I would probably consider myself a switch with subslave tendancies if I had to categorize myself.



Basically Im looking for someone to explore each others wants and needs with. There may be days Im into being dominant, and there may be days Im into being submissive. Flexibility and an open mind are the keys I think.



My Ideal Person A confidant woman who can hold a conversation and isnt afraid to try new things. One who isnt so wrapped around societys definjtions that she forgets life can actually be fun! Good sense of humor is a must. Need to be able to function socially outside of the adult world. If the only conversation you can have is about sex, we probably arent a great fit.

I know youre out there somewhere! Reach out and say hi!