Here are the top 10 reasons why you should meet me 10) I love to please and be pleased 9) bondage is the worlds best foreplay 8) I have a nipple fetish 7) I learn from each encounter about you, what you like and dislike) I know how to put down a toilet seat 5) I own several pairs of clamps 4) I am very oral 3) I am very discreet 2) Although I crave the control in the bedroom I can switch with the right partner (twice the possibilities),and the 1 reason you should meet me.. well youll have to meet me to find out! I am married to a vanilla partner who thinks I am depraved. So I am looking for a discreet friend, lover and play partner. I have been having a lot of success in being contacted by game players-if thats you, dont bother. I really like quirky and such but real people please. I would love to meet with a woman in which we have fetishes andor kinks in common, if for no other reason than to share our passions in conversation. I am not into the lifestyle but enjoy much of the attractions. I Dont drink or do drugs, so we can meet for a smoothie or soda or such. I WAS a teacher by trade and love to teach. I like all types or people. I like strong women who are submissive sexually. Any other questions, ask, you might possibly get an answer. I do live in the South Bay.