I will know if you didnt and delete your message without reading it.
I am DDF and intend to stay that way.
I am a Dominant Man looking for a live-in,young,pet slave,twink type boi that wants to please his owner! Ill do it all except scat to you if you deserve the attention ) I am laid back, and easy to please, but believe in rules that are firmly enforced.
1. My word is law and your absolute desire to uphold
2. You are not entitled to clothing unless the law requires
3. You are not allowed to touch yourself while I maintain ownership
4. Absolute honesty at all times. Lies will not be tolerated in the slightest
5. I will not tolerate the use of drugs in any capacity
Following my simple rules earns you the privilege of being played with in a manner you like as a reward. But I will use my property in ways that pleases me most of the time. Break the rules, and an array of punishment awaits my naughty little boi. A cage, a king, a whipping, a loss to the right to cum for a long time, or suffering a dislike of yours.
Message me to get to know me and we can see if you are the right boi for me. While they will be tested, I respect limits.
I am seeking Doms for friendships and ideas only. I do not seek domination, but rather to grow and further my knowledge, or share what I have with other Doms. subs and slaves are welcome to tap into that knowledge as well. It should be every Dom and subs goal to be the absolute best for their other!
After you have read this and want to contact me put ty as the first word in your message. If I contacted you first, this does not apply.
4/5/2013 10:30:11 PM: It's been a while since I needed to do this. But for fuck's sake. Is it so hard for people to read? It must be. For the most part, the Doms that want to talk to me actually read my profile, and contact me as I asked. But the subs on here just don't get it. And can't seem to read. Then, if you delete them without 'reading' teir message, they get pissed. TO fucking bad bois. Message me right, so I know you know what I am looking for or be deleted. If you can't follow a simple rule on how to message me so I know you know what I want up front, then how am I to be expected to even think you know how to submit and do as you are told.
8/4/2012 9:02:05 PM: Today, I went to lunch with a friend. We went to a Chinese place. Great food. I get my fill and the bill. It is, of course, accompanied by a fortune cookie. And how often do they contain an actual fortune? Never. They didn't disappoint.
Instead, there is a phrase (I guess). And my mind just went for a ride when I read it. 'Life to you is a bold and dashing responsibilty.' That's no fortune. It's a statement. Homer Simpson wrote better fortunes.
To my point though. It seams that some fortune cookie writer and a server have me figured out. Is that not the statement of a Dom? Is that not why I am working on a boi to own? Because I find life as a responsibilty?
Well, it is. It is a bold responsibilty to own a person. These days anyway. Unlike in the 1860's when it didn't matter if your slave lived or not other than to bring in the next haul of cotton. But those days are long since over, and I don't have a plantation. Yet the fact that I need the responsibilty of a slave boi to control and take care of is simply a part of me, my life. Yes, I said need. Just like a sub/slave needs to submit and be controlled.
So. While the fortune itself sucked, it was very correct about me.
7/22/2012 8:41:33 PM: Do you know what grinds my gears? Yes, I know Peter Griffin said it and did an entire show on it. But here it is anyway.
I've recieved a few friend requests. Okay, that's cool. But not as the first means of contact. A new message pops up. I go to my inbox and find it's from someone that I have had no prior contact with. Is it a message? No. It's a friend request.
This isn't Facebook people. Go for it. Try to find me on there. Good luck. I don't have one. I have accepted only one friend request on here. Out of all of them, just one. The guy actually messaged me a few times. I of course reciprocated (shit big word there, I hope you understand it). And then he messaged me that he would like to add me to his friends and sent a separate friend request at the same time. At least he got to know me a little bit first.
This site is not about building a list of people that you are 'friends' with. It is about finding people that you might or do connect with and then getting fucked. In the long run at least. And I mean sexually. Not screwed over or scammed. It's a dating site no matter how you want to look at it. It's just one that is tailored to our kinky needs.
Making friends is nice. I have made a few on here. If any of those bois want to send me a friend request, I'll accept it. But I don't use the site to build a list of friends that is longer than someone else's. Each one of the friends that I have made on here are actual bois that I would love to get my hands on and own. They are just not willing to relocate, or are looking for something a little different than me. And so we are friends.
The point is, in case you missed it, that I will accept friend requests from friends. Not strangers. Message me first and get to know me a little before asking to be my 'friend.' Hell, even an invite to chat with a stranger is more welcome in my book than a friend request from a stranger. And I don't care if you are a sub, Dom, or switch. The same protocol applies.
4/28/2012 11:29:38 PM: Hello Doms. Or so called Doms anyway. If you are a real and respectable sub/slave, please feel free to read on. you might appreciate it. If you are the proverbial doormat, you probably don't want to continue.
I have come across a few profiles in my short time on this site that belong to subs being approached by Doms that give the rest of us a bad name. If you intend to make contact with a prospective sub/slave, you better make sure you pay attention to their profile and approach them accordingly. It is very disrepsectful to those of us that are real Doms on this site to approach a sub, that has decided it wishes to insure its safety and well being by finding the Dom that will give them the control they desire with respects to its limits and desires, without regards to its wants and needs. Those of you that are that disrespectful make it very difficult for those of us that truly deserve our boi to find a boi that is willing to converse with us because they have been approached with unreasonable demands from insane Doms. And on their first day on this site.
If you are a real Dom, your sub is out there. If you are just someone that wants to be a Dom, do your research and learn your role. Then try to get into this lifestyle after you know the basic ropes and know what your true role is. Being Dom, Switch, or submissive is engrained in you. Not something you become. If you don't like that fact, take it down the road, because those of us that are real (and that does include the Sadists, not the insane; there's a huge difference) don't need you making the waters so merky we can't find our true subs.
4/25/2012 6:16:48 PM: 'Hello Sir.'
That is no way to greet me. Sure, it shows some respect. But WTF does it mean. I keep getting these messages. And they mean squat to me. Sure, I say hi back; but WTF else am I supposed to say. I haven't got a clue what you're looking for. Do you want to be owned? Do you want to be friends? Are you looking for information about me or the lifestyle? Hmmmm. It truly makes me wonder if the person on the other end here knows what they are. A slave? A sub? A kinky play toy? Do they even know what the difference is?
For me, that was the last 'Hello Sir' I'm ever going to respond to. It's not worth my time. The mouse over feature to check messages is very nice. So I can tell if it's one of those and delete it unread. I wonder if I should just start blocking these morons? I'll take suggestions on that from anybody that wants to comment. And make sure you know the difference between a comment and a rant. I'm Dominant, so I will rant. If you're submissive, don't rant; it's unimpressive when you do. And it makes a Dom wonder if you really are willing to please. A disrespectful sub does not deserve to be owned. And an unownable submissive is pretty much going to be a sad one until they figure it out. And make sure you understand what 'ownable' means. It has nothing to do with whether you want to be owned or not. I've had subs that I didn't own, I just played with them when I wanted and they were available. But they were ownable, even though they didn't want to be owned. Watch out for the hole there. That is a pretty deep thought I just posed; and I don't want all the shallow thinkers to get stuck in it.