While introspecting, I came up with some thoughts about My views on sex and life in general... 1) Honesty develops trust. Trust is absolutely vital to a healthy relationship. Without trust, W/we can't enter the inner realm of heart and mind. 2) Domination is about much more than sex, however, D/s is highly sexually charged. Control and sexual excitement is primarily psychological and emotional; secondarily, it is physical. 3) Maturity, which has little to do with age, is a balance of awareness, common sense, and the ability to relate to another's reality. 4) Attraction is primarily found in the personality, although, physical attraction is very important as well; if W/we are not wildly attracted to one another, in both personality and physical appearance, then the relationship grows stale soon. 5) A Dominant should be loving, kind, and spontaneous; at the same time, He should be knowledgeable, strict, and well-prepared for all known possibilities.