4/21/2018 7:05:28 PM: Here's a common canned pitch they all use. Where the hell do you people get this stuff?I want to have a fantastic relationship with you as my obedient slave and I look forward with much excitement to train with strict discipline. I want you to prove worthy of my supremacy as I will make  you yearn to where my collar and leash and relinquish total control of yourself to me. Your time with me would be a time you would never forget all your life and would last for a very long time, having great times together and exploring those kinky side in you with great pleasure. 1. You must always address me as master, do not forget this for one second! 2. You must never disagree or argue with ME. 3. My WILL shall always supersede your own, and my tiniest whim is your absolute law. 4. You shall always  please me at all times,there is no room for bad moods.Perfection of service and submission is the goal, mere excellence will be tolerated. 5. You shall speak in third person speech. Therefore you shouldn't use the words  I , 'me' or 'mine.' Instead, say  'this one' , 'this slave' or 'this .' 6. You would serve me alone and be pleasing, you should cancel every other contact with any Mistress immediately if you want to have the special position of MY slave. 7. You should not enter into the conversations between you and your Mistress with others .I love to share a special and sacred bond with my slave without any interference. 8. You must NEVER do anything without permission, always ask for permission before leaving a conversation. 9. If you need to ask a question during conversation, request for permission to do so, then ask your mistress,your mistress is your teacher and path. 10. You would always be loving,faithful,loyal and honest towards any dealings with your Mistress 11.You must STOP your search for any other Mistress

4/21/2018 8:24:53 AM: The more and more I do my homework, the more I'm convinced the BDSM lifestyle is sort of not real. It just seems to me that 98% of the various kinks and fetishes are us guys doing that stuff. I'm a total skeptic when it comes to women and kinks. I just don't see them really having them.I mentioned cuckolding. Again, what I didn't know is that it's the men pushing this stuff. Women just don't function like that, it's really not something they do. I see profiles on here all the time for women professing that type of relationship, but I'm not buying into it.As far as this site or similar ones are concerned, my experience is that a plurality of what I see is just fake stuff. People just clowning around or just looking for a quick cash score. There are a few people here and there that are legit, but most are just fake profiles.As far as the legit people, particularly the dominant women on here, my overall experience, which feeds my skepticism, is that they're sort of not real. Many I find are prodommes, which I don't have a problem with, as they cater to that kinky guy fantasy stuff for a fee. That's fine if it works for your situation. But my perception is that even they are strictly business. I'm not convinced they personally are into it during their off time. Findom? The more I look at that mess, the more I'm realizing us men are giving ourselves enough rope to hang ourselves with. People aren't stupid, and are taking advantage of our own lack of self control. There's only one way to stop the findoms, and that's just to say no. So as stated, most of this stuff is men's fantasy stuff. I don't honestly believe that women give a crap about it. But alas, I don't profess to be some kind of expert on this, just stating my personal observations. If anyone had another viewpoint or differing experience, I'm all ears.

4/20/2018 7:34:47 AM: Cuckold lifestyle? Is it realistic? I'm no expert, but the more I research it, I find that it isn't what I thought it was. The truth is that it, once again, is a male driven thing. It seems that almost every single time, when it comes to fetishes, kinks, all sorts of 'alternative lifestyle' choices, it really is more about men than women. I honestly find that women tend to not really be into kink. Perhaps it's the programming of roles that society thrusts upon us, I really don't know. But if there's a kink or some odd perversion in a relationship, it always seems to be the man with the issue. I'm skeptical that any of it really clicks with women. So that is something I'm open to discussing. Is femdom, cuckolding, FLR, or any of this stuff really female driven, or is it actually the men pushing this stuff? I'm sort of on the fence about it, but I'm starting to believe that even femdom is not the least bit dominant, but is actually a form of submission. It's more about women doing things to please men's little dark desires. Some do it professionally as we know. But true domination? I'm kind of a skeptic about it. Seems to me like the man is actually in control in most cases. Cuckolding seems to really fall into this area. More of a male fantasy than something women really want.What do others think?

4/19/2018 3:49:56 PM: One thing I've seen a real uptick in listings on here is just making me SMH and throw up in my mouth at the same time.WTF is with what appears to be the gaining popularity of 'human toilets'? And the pictures as well?Come on guys, don't give me that 'To each his own' and 'Stop judging people' nonsense.That's just nasty. Stay safe, sane, and consensual.

4/18/2018 3:22:53 PM: OK, gotta mention this one. If I talk to you on here or hangouts or wherever, stop calling me slave!Bad form.I am not your slave right out of the gate. Quit the games and let's have a conversation worth having. Talk about the moon and the stars, I don't know. But I'm not your slave!