Collarspace

I am an experienced, strict Man who believes that women are driven by biology and emotion to be submissive, sexually and physically, to men. I am creative, uninhibited, aggressive, controlling, highly educated, extremely intelligent, in good physical shape and I don't take "no" for an answer.

The woman that I seek is intelligent, attractive, in shape and craves to be deeply submissive in real life to a Man, to be owned, disciplined, protected and driven to make her the best woman that she can be. I expect compliant submission to my choices, decisions and demands in all aspects of her life that I control. While this should not have to be said to any rational person, I do not engage in scat play, sex with animals or children, illegal drug use, silly role play games and I do not inflict serious or permanent injury. This is not a game of sexual kink, this is real life D/s dynamic. I will entertain additional hard limit requests but it is solely within my discretion to decide when, where and how you are used.

I am looking for a woman who understands her deep need to submit, who craves to feel pleasure, discipline, pain, complete loss of control and wanton need at my hands, and who is not afraid of the darkness in her soul - and Mine. I am serious, I am real, I am demanding, and I am clear. I am very experienced, having been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for many years. I know what I am doing. I am safe, sane and reasonable but I am also utterly dominant in all aspects of life. I expect you to work at a real job, have goals and dreams, and be completely submissive to me in our relationship. Exercise and healthy diet are required so that your physical body is attractive and healthy. I will train, mold and guide you to be the very best woman that you can be - a beautiful, feminine, compliant, submissive, obedient, and interesting woman who embraces her cherished role as my fucktoy and slave.

This is not a "normal" relationship with a little kink, it is intense, deep total submission of the heart, mind and body. However, there is great freedom in being enslaved to a good man. That is a paradox that you will experience as I will take care of you, guide you, protect you and yet utterly own your body and soul.

I am clean, safe, healthy, no STD's, no drugs and I expect the same. I am not interested in having children. Feel free to ask any questions that you may have.

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7/8/2017 10:24:57 AM: “It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.”~ Cherise Sinclair If you're not willing to risk it all, then you don't want it bad enough. Isn't it better to cross the line and suffer the consequences than to just stare at that line for the rest of your life? 'To look into the eyes of a wolf is to see your own soul - hope you like what you see.' - Aldo Leopold “The limit of every pain is an even greater pain.” Emile M. Cioran They make it look so easy ... connecting with another human being. It's like they don't know that it's the hardest thing in the world. ~Dexter Man's mind, stretched by a new idea, never goes back to its original dimensions. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. ~Rumi

2/18/2014 1:58:11 PM: Humiliating a submissive is arousing to a dominant because it is complete power. It is her submitting to acts that embarrass her or degrade her because she desires to be THAT submissive to me. That is a very intense, very intimate interaction between two people. And it is that paradox, humiliation being so intensely intimate, that arouses Me.

3/23/2013 10:10:24 AM: Control is the ultimate expression of power.

9/28/2012 7:45:18 AM: Beg.

8/23/2012 8:37:36 PM: Courage is interesting. Fear is boring. Be interesting.

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