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I love seeing guys all tied up!

The Basics

Im 62, 220 lbs., SP thinning hair, 6 cut, DD free.

As For Labels

GAY I consider myself gay because I am not sexually attracted to women at all - only men however, I dont like to bottom and I dont like sucking cock (more about that later).

EVOLVING In the past I had acted primarily as a Rope Top with brief periods of time once every few years where I had the urge to submit. To date I have been tied up twice and spanked twice the last time being January 2018. I now feel this is something I want to explore regularly while continuing to tie up guys. Although I consider myself a switch, I dont like the idea of switching with the same guy. If i submit to someone, He will always be the Dom.

History

My first exposure to BDSM happened during a Boy Scout camping trip when I was 12. One of the kids brought his brothers porn on the trip. I was already strongly attracted to boys and conditioned to believe it was wrong, but the desire to make physical contact was very strong. The magazine he brought was full of black and white photos of a naked guy tied spread eagle, face up and he was being worked over by a Domme. I saw bondage as the answer to my problem. If I tied up the guy, he couldnt hit me or run away. Dont forget, I was 12 at the time.

But back then being into kink meant you were mentally ill (as was homosexuality - I had two strikes against me). Homosexuality was cured in the 70s, then AIDS came in the 80s and bondage was being promoted as a way to make safe sex more exciting. Now if the other guy was tied up I could control where the fluids went however, if I were tied up . . . so I focused on being a Top (that period may also be the reason I have an aversion to being penetrated).

Kink

As a Top I use blindfolds to heighten sensations for the sub. I also tend to be non-verbal during play indicating what I want by pushing, pulling, lifting, etc.

Hard limits blood, knives needles, fire, scat, FF, marks that last more than a few hours (a bruised ass is acceptable), and anything unsafe.

As a submissive, Im interested in bondage and spanking. If I were to be required to service the Dom orally keep in mind I give a blow job like a straight guy doing it for the first time. (which can be a turn on for some guys).

Non-Kink Stuff

*Somewhat educated

*Fairly well traveled

*Appreciate the arts

*Something of a film-buff

*Preference for Thai and Indian cuisine

*Spiritual

Dec 10, 2016 - Test Results

Results from bdsmtest.org

98 Rigger

97 Dominant

97 MasterMistress

97 Owner

87 Non-monogamist

85 Brat tamer

84 Sadist

82 Rope bunny

82 Voyeur

77 DaddyMommy

76 Experimentalist

75 Switch

74 Primal (Hunter)

68 Degrader

57 Submissive

53 Masochist

53 Exhibitionist

47 Ageplayer

38 Slave

31 Primal (Prey)

23 Brat

19 Vanilla

18 Pet

15 Degradee

12 GirlBoy