4/19/2017 8:11:00 PM: “Real isn't how you are made. It's a thing that happens to you. Sometimes it hurts, but when you are Real you don't mind being hurt. It doesn't happen all at once. You become. Once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand. Once you are Real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.” - Margery Williams, The Velveteen Rabbitthe same applies to slavery as well.

2/2/2017 1:19:05 AM: slavery is not about suffering - slavery is about service. slavery is not about humiliation - slavery is about humility. slavery is not about pain - slavery is about being present. slavery is not about being used - slavery is about being of use. slavery is not about control - slavery is about letting go. slavery is not about your desires - slavery is about giving to others. slavery is not about abuse - slavery is about acceptance. slavery is not about proving anything - slavery is about being real. slavery is not about contempt - slavery is about respect. slavery is not about how you look - slavery is about how you care. slavery is not about denying yourself - slavery is about being open. slavery is not about punishment - slavery is about discipline. slavery is not about being unable to escape - slavery is about being committed. slavery is not about submission - slavery is about obedience. slavery is not about fear - slavery is about trust. slavery is not about sex - slavery is about selflessness. slavery is not about pleasure - slavery is about finding fulfillment.