Just changed My profile message but thought I preserve the old one:  I consider myself a mature, benevolent, intellectual woman. I am out-going, genuine, and good natured with a keen sense of humor. I take pride in my appearance and attire. I am articulate and personable and I am comfortable in most social situations. I am single, and independent.

You will most likely find me different than the usual ProDomme today. I have always been a dominant personality and since I can remember I have enjoyed and practiced the use of pain and bondage with sex. I learned BDSM through experience long before I ever heard the term, as a result I have had very little outside influence where my personal techniques and style as a Domme is concerned.

Most of my adult life I have outwardly appeared Vanilla. It has only been in more recent years and after much experience, research, and consideration that I became a Pro-Domme and began adopting BDSM as a "Lifestyle."

I am not what one might consider a Female Supremacist instead I am a Self-Supremacist. I claim my supremacy not as a gift but as an accomplishment. I work hard and make a conscientious effort to become increasing better at whatever it is I do. I am confident and self-assured; and have few if any hang-ups. I seek those who appreciate this of me and will go to great lengths to prove it.


To be with me one must be sexually adventurous and be completely open to sexual diversion and fetish exploration.

I believe there is an artistry to BDSM.  A good Dominatrix is more than a bitch with a whip.  There is a skill set that one must obtain to become a proficient Mistress and furthermore she must possess a certain innate knowledge that cannot be learned.

She must have the confidence and ability to guide her submissive to a place where inhibition does not interfere with carnal inclinations and the expertise to safely bring one there.  I am and expert in these techniques, my skills are honed and I am often told, beyond compare.

I use many methods to elicit sensation, impact play, sensory deprivation, electro-stim,  sounding, rope-bondage, humiliation, fantasy role-play and of course pain.  All of these things, whether physical or mental,  when administered in a timely fashion at the hands of an intuitive Mistress are merely tools used to increase the intensity of your experience and nothing to fear.

Pain is my favorite stimulator for many reasons.  Certainly, it excites me to see you suffer solely for the pleasure of your Mistress and I will admit I am a bit of sadist.  I love to see your attempts to cope and adapt as I provoke you further and still further. Yes, how I love a total pain slut.

But beyond that, regardless of if you like it or not, pain evokes nervous impulses and arouses one’s mind and body into a state of activity.  There is something called adrenal exhaustion, it is brought on by sensory overload.  Edging nearer to this point the magnitude of one’s orgasm increases immensely.  Well… that is… if I allow you to have one. 
 

Still everyone has their personal limits.   Knowledge is the cornerstone to discerning just where those limits lay.  I will take the time to learn certain things about you.  An honest expression of your most secret desires, fantasies, fetishes, and your own accounting of your limits will help me to know you better.  Understanding what drives you, allows me to push the extreme outside of the envelope. Thus taking you places you have only fantasized about before.

My passion is BDSM, I love what I do.  It doesn't matter to me if you are a newbie who just wants to explore a little, or a seasoned submissive who knows what he needs, each session is unique, intimate, and personal.  You will be thrilled to serve me.

If you are ready for something more than the usual and ordinary BDSM encounter, and if you envision a sexy authoritative Dominatrix, a skillful administrator of pain and pleasure, one who will delight in pushing you ever closer to the threshold of your limits...you have finally arrived!

 I am reposting the following infomation:  For those inquiring about becoming a full time slave to Me:

I am a Pro-Domme but I am also a lifestyle dominatrix as well and I am always open to finding a good slave.  

Being My slave is a life enriching and valued position.  In addition to being a sexy, skilled, and intuitive Mistress,  I am also a fair, kind & loving,  generous, candid & honest, intelligent & witty bi-sexual Woman.   I am not looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or anything of that nature.  Nor am I looking to take someone on to raise, if you get My meaning. 

Owning you must enrich My life in some way and hopefully in many ways.  I will only consider a slave who is willing to submit completely, who is gainfully employed(or  independently wealthy), honest, and who has a genuine love of servitude (intelligent/good sense of humor can step to the front of the line.)  I do not want a doormat to lay at My feet and I do not require a housekeeper, cook, or maid per se'  (although all skills are appreciated.)  I do not seek a useless piece of shit or anyone who considers themselves to be that.  What good is a piece of shit to Me? 

If you do consider yourself a piece of shit CALL NOW, schedule your session.  I will happily relieve you of all your money and treat you just like what you are, no problem.  But you cannot remain near Me after you have thoroughly licked My boot clean as I do not keep company with the likes of you.  Why would I?

If you have a legitimate interest in getting to know Me than start by scheduling a session and we can go from there.  For more information go to My website at http://PriestessPaine.LasVegasBDSM.Net/  

This is not a sales pitch.  Remember you are the one inquiring about being a slave to Me.  I am not reaching out to you but instead I am simply providing information to assist you in your quest.

Finally, if/when you contact Me for consideration in this matter, keep in mind if you do not provide Me with a reason/reasons to consider you, I wont. 

Thank you for your interest either way.  Sincerely, the Priestess Payzly Paine 

Update on the Priestess: 

Hello All, I am Priestess Paine of Las Vegas. How do you do?  I have temporarily change My location here on collarMe.com  to New York City.  Seems like the best draw attention in the NYC area where I am currently visiting. 

Currently My newly acquired bi-male whore slave is working in the Manhattan area. I will be joining My slave for a short vacation on the 19th-25th.

I am seeking a lifestyle Dominatrix in the NYC area who might consider putting My slave to good use if only for a couple of hours before My arrival. slave needs to become accustom to being used by whom ever I see fit and for whatever purpose that is required.

he is not a pain-slut per se' but he endures it for Mistress's pleasure and slave is aware that he needs the discipline. However no permanent damage should befall him.

he is a professional man, clean, fit, and nice looking. Well mannered, and while he has had little actual practice, he has been trained to display the proper slave etiquette outside of the vanilla world.

Ideally, the Mistress would skype Me so that I can watch. Ideal, but not necessary. Knowing full well the value of One's time an acceptable tribute will be predetermined as will slaves hard limits. His profile is below.

Interested Domina please contact me "Priestess Paine" here at Collarspace.

the Priestess Payzly Paine

For those inquiring about becoming a full time slave to Me:

I am a Pro-Domme but I am also a lifestyle dominatrix as well and I am always open to finding a good slave.  

Being My slave is a life enriching and valued position.  In addition to being a sexy, skilled, and intuitive Mistress,  I am also a fair, kind & loving,  generous, candid & honest, intelligent & witty bi-sexual Woman.   I am not looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or anything of that nature.  Nor am I looking to take someone on to raise, if you get My meaning. 

Owning you must enrich My life in some way and hopefully in many ways.  I will only consider a slave who is willing to submit completely, who is gainfully employed(or  independently wealthy), honest, and who has a genuine love of servitude (intelligent/good sense of humor can step to the front of the line.)  I do not want a doormat to lay at My feet and I do not require a housekeeper, cook, or maid per se'  (although all skills are appreciated.)  I do not seek a useless piece of shit or anyone who considers themselves to be that.  What good is a piece of shit to Me? 

If you do consider yourself a piece of shit CALL NOW, schedule your session.  I will happily relieve you of all your money and treat you just like what you are, no problem.  But you cannot remain near Me after you have thoroughly licked My boot clean as I do not keep company with the likes of you.  Why would I?

If you have a legitimate interest in getting to know Me than start by scheduling a session and we can go from there.  For more information go to My website at http://PriestessPaine.LasVegasBDSM.Net/  

This is not a sales pitch.  Remember you are the one inquiring about being a slave to Me.  I am not reaching out to you but instead I am simply providing information to assist you in your quest.

Finally, if/when you contact Me for consideration in this matter, keep in mind if you do not provide Me with a reason/reasons to consider you, I wont. 

Thank you for your interest either way.  Sincerely, the Priestess Payzly Paine 

I have noticed, here on this site, on various profiles and journals a very disturbing and yet recurring theme.  I keep reading how there are no "true" Dominatrices here any more.  That the Fem-Domme here on "collarme" are all wanting money and therefor they are fake.  One particular profile stated (not in these exact words,  I don't want to front any one off) that if a Dominatrix requires a tribute she is little more than a whore and should sell her goods else where. 

I have nothing against whores but this statement was meant as an out-right slur, a discredit to every Pro-Domme on "collarme".  While those of you who believe this to be true are entitled to your opinion, I have an opinion of my own and I am compelled to share it with you now. 

First, there has never been a time when a Dominatrix did not require a tribute of her submissive for conducting a session.  So nothing has changed in that respect, ever.  I would add, that any descent submissive who truly worshiped or even held in esteem his/her Mistress would want to (at the very least) contribute to her household. 

Tribute of course does not always come in the form of cash.  A slave for example, may pay his/her keep with deeds.  They may perform many duties both domestic and sexual but still they contribute.  Another example I can think of where tribute for a session is not paid in cash is in when the Dominatrix is actually the wife or girlfriend.  In both examples however the submissive is most likely a major contributor to the household as he/she lives there.  Whether we are talking about a vanilla household or "life-style" household it doesn't really matter...Master, Mistress, slave, submissive, we must all do our part.

Not your household you say?  Not your responsibility, right?  I will bet that those of you who see things that way, have a little wife at home of whom they do not tell about the Mistress.  That's a dirty little secret right.  You just want to use somebody.  While you are accusing the Mistress of being a fake, the fact is...you are the fake.  You don't know the first thing about being a "true" sub.  You just want to have someone to give you some free sex on the side and then you sneak home to the family never giving a second thought to how your Mistress will pay the electric bill. 

I have been a Pro-Domme long enough to tell you that most men who say they want to be a slave/submissive just want some kinky sex.  In fact I will estimate that not 1 out of 50 actually even enjoy pain with sex.  Hello....BDSM!  Not that I have anything against the type...hey, I like kinky sex too but please do not come on here with your Self-righteous and Self-serving asses and talk about how there are no "True" Dominatrices here because she insists on a tribute.  When you do not know the first thing about being a slave/submissive.  When all you really want is someone who'll go up your ass and not tell your wife and friends! 

Now let's shine a big bright light on those who shout "Whore."  This shit kills me.  Let's just see...ask your self this question (and for once try to be honest at least with your self.)  Would you charge for sex if you could?  Well?  No, not you right?  That would go against your moral fiber, I'm sure. 

My-self I do not share the same opinion as the moral majority where sex is concerned as long it is not with the unwilling I do not see what the problem is.  And if I were of the same opinion as the moral majority, I doubt seriously I would be on "collarme" to begin with.  How about you?  If you want to shout out ugly words...much worse than Whore, I believe would be HYPOCRITE!   But that's just me. 

Most "true" Dominatrices are very conscientious.  They put much work into what will ultimately be your pleasure.  This is not an effortless endeavor.  There is a lot that goes into being a good Mistress.  She must always take care to represent herself in a certain fashion.  Daily she must consider her personal image, maintaining her facilities and gear, creating and preparing for scenarios, insuring that every one in her household is fed and taken care of, and many other things you may take for granted. 

To be a Pro-Domme is to give yourself over completely to the "life-style."  She is the quintessence, thee "True" Dominatrix.

STILL Seeking Bi-Sexual Female as Trainee and Companion

Must live in Las Vegas or surrounding area, no one from out of state will be considered.  Must be exceptionally clean, height/weight proportionate, easy on the eyes, and sexually adventurous.  Must enjoy BDSM, like to party some, have a good sense of humor, and be honest and respectful.  Independent only (no married) Self thinkers step to the front of the line.  Room & Board and many other benefits available to the right woman.  

Seeking Bi-Sexual Female as Trainee and Companion

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Must live in Las Vegas or surrounding area, no one from out of state will be considered.  Must be exceptionally clean, height/weight proportionate, easy on the eyes, and sexually adventurous.  Must enjoy BDSM, like to party some, have a good sense of humor, and be honest and respectful.  Independent only (no married) Self thinkers step to the front of the line.  Room & Board and many other benefits available to the right woman.  

Seeking Bi-Sexual Female as Trainee and Companion

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Must live in Las Vegas or surrounding area, no one from out of state will be considered.  Must be exceptionally clean, height/weight proportionate, easy on the eyes, and sexually adventurous.  Must enjoy BDSM, like to party some, have a good sense of humor, and be honest and respectful.  Independent only (no married) Self thinkers step to the front of the line.  Room & Board and many other benefits available to the right woman.  

COME SEE MY NEW DUNGEON

I have recently moved and I am happy to say that I now have a FULL DUNGEON in which to entertain Myself.  I will post pics later. 

Now that was fun.  Let's see...what I can find to entertain Me today?  Who's next!?   

SOME NEW PHOTOS TO LOOK AT

Update>>   I have a new Toy to play with.  I have a shiny new Tens Unit.  Want to see how STIMULATING I can be?     Scheduling Sessions Now!!

Forget all that I said yesterday.  Right now I am in the mood to severely punish and humiliate.  I have never met a man who didn't deserve it. 

        CURRENTLY  SCHEDULING SESSIONS

I am no longer seeking a slave.  I am currently considering a slave that seems to meet my needs very nicely.  It will be quite a long time before I have need for another unless for some unforeseen reason this one does not work out. 

I am no longer accepting applications so don't bother to send me one.  However I am still conducting sessions (of course.)  If you would like to schedule a session feel free to contact me. 

Priestess Paine

I have not been on collarme.com for some time now.  So if I have not replied to your email most likely I am just seeing it.  I will be replying to emails some time today. 

It has been brought to my attention that my ad for a slave may be misleading.  I agree and feel it necessary to make an amendment at this time...I am not looking for a part time slave/submissive.  Instead I am in search of a FULL TIME slave/submissive.

This person will be a live-in slave as soon as I have moved into a suitable home.  In the mean time he/she will spend the majority of his/her time here with me so that I can evaluate our compatibility to ensure we are a harmonious fit.

I am currently in search of a slave.  The one I seek will be self sufficient and have a full time residence as they will not be a live-in slave, not at first anyway.  However he/she cannot be married or have any other binding commitments as he/she will spend many nights here with me and will be at my beck and call.  With consideration for ones job of course. 

I must have complete and total loyalty.  This of course comes with time and training so if you are not ready for long term service, you are not for me.  I do not seek a doormat.  If you are intelligent and witty you may step to the front of the line.  No Rats, thieves, sneaks, liars, hypocrites, or haters!  You must be trustworthy and of good character. 

My slave is not one who hates them selves and has no self-respect.  If you do not respect yourself it is hard to imagine you will respect others.  Instead he/she is one who truly enjoys servitude both sexual and non-sexual. 

I am not seeking a boyfriend or a girlfriend I am seeking a submissive who will serve as my personal assistant and as my wanton sex-slave.  This persons service will include both domestic duties and lascivious sexual servitude.  The rewards will be many for one who has an aptitude for both.  

The one I seek MUST have a high tolerance for pain, no others need apply.

Today I am in an especially sadistic mood.  Any one care to find out?  I am wanting to go deep up in it.  Step up to the plate.  I got one for ya!

Do you love the feel of feather,
Tracing soft across your skin?
Does the fragrance of fine leather,
Put you in the mood for sin?
Maybe fur or maybe velvet,
Or an opulent sheepskin;
Is it texture? Is it odour?
Is it some sense inbetween? 

Does the searing heat do something,
When you're dripped with candle wax?
Or perhaps you yearn for burning
Flogger strokes upon your back,
While your senses all are startled
By the auditory cracks,
And the stinging lines of fire
That the cane leaves in its tracks. 

Perhaps you prefer ice cubes
As they trace their trails of chill,
Or the way your partner binds you
When (s)he bends you to (her)his will,
Overwhelms you with sensations,
Till your body's taut with thrill,
Then in trance you enter dreamspace,
And at last your mind is still

~~Sensory Perceptions by S. Hartwell~~

Release yourself first.  Break free from the sexual oppression set in place by the traditions of man.  Do not allow the dogmatic morals of the majority to dictate what should or should not stimulate your body and mind.  Be a free thinker, a Bohemian!

♦◊♦   The Priestess Payzly Paine    ♦◊♦

A message to all of you potential subs, slaves, sissies, and  slutty bitch-bois who constantly clamor for my attention and yet have not scheduled a session with me.  

I will be glad to give you what you need and just what you deserve when we meet for a session.  Until then stop wasting my time with your repeated requests for pics and for details about "what I will do to you during a session."  Get real!  I don't have the time or the inclination to discuss torrid details with you, while you jerk on your tiny penis. 

For those who are working with me on a particular scenario and who have already committed to a specific date and time, I will of course answer any legitimate questions.  Even then, you can expect answers only to the broader aspects of the scene.  Which will consist mainly of logistical matters and a time line.

Priestess Payzly Paine

I have noticed, here on this site, on various profiles and journals a very disturbing and yet recurring thyme.  I keep reading how there are no "true" Dominatrices here any more.  That the Fem-Domme here on "collarme" are all wanting money and therefor they are fake.  One particular profile stated (not in these exact words,  I don't want to front any one off) that if a Dominatrix requires a tribute she is little more than a whore and should sell her goods else where. 

I have nothing against whores but this statement was meant as an out-right slur, a discredit to every Pro-Domme on "collarme".  While those of you who believe this to be true are entitled to your opinion, I have an opinion of my own and I am compelled to share it with you now. 

First, there has never been a time when a Dominatrix did not require a tribute of her submissive for conducting a session.  So nothing has changed in that respect, ever.  I would add, that any descent submissive who truly worshiped or even held in esteem his/her Mistress would want to (at the very least) contribute to her household. 

Tribute of course does not always come in the form of cash.  A slave for example, may pay his/her keep with deeds.  They may perform many duties both domestic and sexual but still they contribute.  Another example I can think of where tribute for a session is not paid in cash is in when the Dominatrix is actually the wife or girlfriend.  In both examples however the submissive is most likely a major contributor to the household as he/she lives there.  Whether we are talking about a vanilla household or "life-style" household it doesn't really matter...Master, Mistress, slave, submissive, we must all do our part. 

Not your household you say?  Not your responsibility, right?  I will bet that those of you who see things that way, have a little wife at home of whom they do not tell about the Mistress.  That's a dirty little secret right.  You just want to use somebody.  While you are accusing the Mistress of being a fake, the fact is...you are the fake.  You don't know the first thing about being a "true" sub.  You just want to have someone to give you some free sex on the side and then you sneak home to the family never giving a second thought to how your Mistress will pay the electric bill. 

I have been a Pro-Domme long enough to tell you that most men who say they want to be a slave/submissive just want some kinky sex.  In fact I will estimate that not 1 out of 50 actually even enjoy pain with sex.  Hello....BDSM!  Not that I have anything against the type...hey, I like kinky sex too but please do not come on here with your Self-righteous and Self-serving asses and talk about how there are no "True" Dominatrices here because she insists on a tribute.  When you do not know the first thing about being a slave/submissive.  When all you really want is someone who'll go up your ass and not tell your wife and friends! 

Now let's shine a big bright light on those who shout "Whore."  This shit kills me.  Let's just see...ask your self this question (and for once try to be honest at least with your self.)  Would you charge for sex if you could?  Well?  No, not you right?  That would go against your moral fiber, I'm sure. 

My-self I do not share the same opinion as the moral majority where sex is concerned as long it is not with the unwilling I do not see what the problem is.  And if I were of the same opinion as the moral majority, I doubt seriously I would be on "collarme" to begin with.  How about you?  If you want to shout out ugly words...much worse than Whore, I believe would be HYPOCRITE!   But that's just me. 

Most "true" Dominatrices are very conscientious.  They put much work into what will ultimately be your pleasure.  This is not an effortless endeavor.  There is a lot that goes into being a good Mistress.  She must always take care to represent herself in a certain fashion.  Daily she must consider her personal image, maintaining her facilities and gear, creating and preparing for scenarios, insuring that every one in her household is fed and taken care of, and many other things you may take for granted. 

To be a Pro-Domme is to give yourself over completely to the "life-style."  She is the quintessence, thee "True" Dominatrix.

When I opened this account it was my good intention to reply to each and every email that I received, if for no other reason then common courtesy.  However, I did not anticipate receiving so much mail.  It is apparent now that I cannot manage it.  I simply do not have the time to devote to it.  I do enjoy correspondence from every one and would that I could answer each email but that is not realistic. 

So in an effort to better manage my in-coming mail and to receive mail that is more in-line with my own needs I am only accepting mail from those who either live in Las Vegas (and surrounding area) and/or from those who are planning to visit Las Vegas in the near future. 

I appreciate every ones cooperation and I wish you luck in your quest. 

Thank you, Priestess Payzly Paine 

Hello Every One, and Happy New Year.  My wish for you in the New Year is that you take a chance and do something that you have only dreamed of doing in the past.  Live for today.  Don't waste another year or even another day fantasizing about it.  Do it.

Give your self over to the passion and erotica that lie within.  Chose your darkest and most compelling fantasy and actually play it out.  As hot as your fetish seems in your minds eyes, imagine the ecstasy that awaits you in the flesh...

...he lay bound and blindfolded, he had never felt so helpless, so vulnerable.  He listened at what seemed to be the buckling of a belt, a harness maybe.  He struggled not only against his restraints but against the feeling of arousal he could not conceal.  His hard cock betrayed him.

She turned to her blindfolded victim and grabbed his cock in one hand and with the other hand jerked the plug out of his ass.  He attempted to twist his body to one side in an effort to protect his exposed back side but the restraints were unrelenting, he had absolutely no control...

I love fetish and fantasy role-play and I am exceptionally good at it.

The Priestess Paine. 

PATIENCE ALL WILL BE REVEALED

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