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I want to obey you because it feels entirely natural to do so ... because youre so effortless in your confidence and leadership that I cant help but follow, because youre so charming and charismatic that I fall under your spell, because your whisper is more ominous than another mans roar.



I have always been submissive, but it is only in the past few years that I have had a context within which to understand what that truly means, and that its much more for me than role-playing ... that it just is. I still have a lot to learn about different styles of Dominance, and I find myself lacking in the experience to describe succinctly what it is that I need (although I have learned a lot about that since joining). In the simplest terms, I long for the right balance I want to give myself completely, for there to be expectations of me and consequences for failing to meet those expectations, but still to be cared for and treated with some degree of respect. I want to quiver at your feet, and yet feel completely safe in your arms. Iwould eventually like a committed, long term relationship, but I see it as similar to vanilla relationships in that it has to happen naturally, as we get to know one another.



I am a functional adult with a reasonably successful business, but its really not in my nature. For me, this version of myself is role-playing. I would have been much more at ease in a time when it was acceptable for men to be men and for women to be women (that said, I am grateful that women who dont feel that way now have options). I am willing to relocate, but Ive been finding it difficult to get to know people beyond a certain point online, if theyre not close enough to meet. Once Dominance has been established, I can submit completely - and want nothing more - but I will not submit by default, and Im finding that too many self-proclaimed DomsMasters expect subsslaves to per a variety of tasks to prove were submissive enough before ever having met, or even having shown themselves to be who they claim. Perhaps this makes me too difficult or demanding (which upsets me because its a very uncomfortable necessity), but I dont feel that my respect for you will have much value if I cant find a way to do this without losing respect for myself.



* non-smoker
* I used to update my age, but I found that because everybody assumes its not updated, it only caused confusion so I set it back to the original. If it is 2018 or early 2019, I am 49.



To the many, many of you who feel compelled to point out how long I have been here (as if Im not aware of it?), you are apparently assuming I have been here and single the entire time. I have been off more than on. It just seems silly to me to create a new profile so I can appear new. If that matters to you, I guess I am not the girl for you.

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blondeempress
 
 Age: 35
 St. louis, Missouri