I spend more time looking and being bored by drivel than I do finding people interesting.   I do not often write folks but when I do it is because you got my attention. 

I have participated in this lifestyle before the internet made it easily accessible. 

I find it interesting that so many folks confuse courtesy with weakness. 

I work professionally.  I am exploring returning to school for my PhD currently.  I have played, lived and explored this lifestyle for decades.