A sensual dominant who loves mixing pleasure and pain.
An intelligent non-smoking Dom who can be sensual but is willing to push limits and make someone cry where necessary.
I'm looking for a sub who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to admit it. That doesn't mean to say I'm not willing to explore a person's interests and to help them discover themselves. I really enjoy having a mental connection to a person, for me that multiplies any physical interactions and is an essential ingredient for a long-term relationship.
My primary interest is spanking, CP and SM play, although I do like the mental control too, I'm not after micro-management.
I love to teach and to assist in a person's awakening. Sometimes that is transitionary and for others it can last a lifetime. This also means I like to talk to women who wouldn't match my needs, or I theirs. Life isn't just about meet-ups.
As you would expect, I have a large selection of toys to suit the need of the sub at hand and I really know how to use them safely. Things can start easy and build or you can feel the full force of the consequences. Either way, you will really get what you need.
I'm based in Kettering, Northants.
Talk to me, you will soon learn I can be trusted, can hold intelligent conversation and have an all-important sense of humour.
Into many things but some more so than others. Just ask, we can never know a person from a profile.
I'm looking to make new friends, to explore new options and it's really unlikely I'll play on first meeting as I want a connection not a one night stand (you have been warned).
I used to be very active in the scene a few years ago and want to reconnect with some of the people that used to use IRC or Yahoo groups (yes, I am that old :-) ).
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Sadist
93% Master/Mistress
90% Daddy/Mommy
86% Dominant
77% Owner
77% Rigger
75% Experimentalist
66% Primal (Hunter)
66% Non-monogamist
65% Degrader
61% Voyeur
46% Ageplayer
45% Vanilla
44% Exhibitionist
40% Brat tamer
30% Switch