There are so many things to say, and having an essay which tells all removes the ability to converse to get to know one another. Occasionally, I enjoy conversation simply for the sake of conversation.
My interest is centred around power imbalance, and control. Over the last 16 years my interests have ranged through almost the entire spectrum of kinky interests. As long as there's a power exchange, it's there (and I've quite likely tried it).
In my book, power exchange should be permanent - I am not interested in relaxing it for a partially-vanilla relationship. Not a necessarily popular outlook, but it is mine
What I am- interested in: conversation, possibly friendship, even more possibly something more.
What I am not: interested in men or roleplay, going to change your nappy/diaper, going to cuddle you, going to have a vanilla relationship with you.
To find out more, have a conversation, I actually enjoy chatting about these things with people (whether or not anything is likely to happen). On the other hand, who knows where a conversation might lead - after all, it's not possible to control something (or someone) well without understanding it/them!
Just curious, those who list "knife play" as a limit: do you mean "knife play" (the running of knife blades over the body), or do you mean "cutting" (actually using a blade to cut flesh)?