Don't be shy, and I understand that your writing me isn't showing interest in me beyond conversation or confession.

Knowing what makes people tick sexually is something I'm genuinely interested in. I'm a teacher, confidant, confessor, and an explorer. I am not a poser just looking for jack-off fantasies and cybersex, nor wasting anyones time. Oh, yeah... I'm Dom, too!

What's taboo to one person isnt to another, so I really dont judge. However, it does give me a good chuckle when it's something that most people think of as vanilla.

Taboo isn't just about specific sex acts. Its also about breaking cultural norms and expectations. Job, race, religion, social status, family values, culture, etc... It all adds to the spice.

I'm smart, kind of a smart-ass with a sarcastic (but never mean)sense of humor, pragmatic but positive, artistic and creative, love music (hard rock,metal, blues, and country mostly), NPR junkie, liberal, play guitar well enough to please me and still know Im not great at it, love to grill on the weekend with family and friends. Love riding my Harley.  I dont tolerate bigotry and deliberate ignorance well.

Very interested in hearing from subs and slaves that come from conservative backgrounds, especially cultures where even relatively vanilla things are taboo.

Sorry, no pics of me on here. Small town, small minds, big mouth, so discretion is required. If we get to know and trust each other, then we can exchange pics. I just find it hypocritical that so many with no pics of their own get on my case about it. The only time I judge harshly is when people use pics of others as their own. But if a pic shows something you're into, and you're honest about it not being you, by all means share!

All levels of experience are fine. Moreover, I have a genuine and deep appreciation for those new to all this and looking for advice or just to talk. I won't assume it means youre interested in me, or (worse) that you're talking to me gives me some claim on you in any way. I'm sure you've run into more than your fair share of those idiots already. You don't need me adding to your frustration.

Mature women are always appreciated. Never will I understand doms who throw a perfectly good sub/slave away because of her age, when their attitude and their identity as a sub/slaves is long ingrained into their being.

Romance and passion and love are not diametrically opposed to each other! It is preferable!

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I'm as Dom as a sub requires.

There are too many doms on here that think theyre God's gift and entitled to treat a sub any way they wish from the get-go and thats just not so. I am NOT that kind of Dom. Screaming and being a misogynist does NOT make one a Dom, either. Having leather chaps or some handcuffs doesnt make one dom, either.

I especially enjoy transforming a woman into the sub she wants to be. I like a sub/slave that anyone can look at and just know that there's something overtly sexual and more about her, but she shouldn't look like a streetwalker. If you want to be a slut, fine, but youre going to be a classier-looking slut than some trashy-looking ho. Bimbofication isnt my thing.

Mental aspects are as important as physical aspects, possibly more so.

One cannot serve two masters. You can be a beta, omega, or any other greek alphabet letter but I don't share with another Dom. Dommes maybe...

I like a slut but a personal slut. I don't share with other men. Sharing with other women is another story entirely.

-On the slut subject, no, I dont automatically think that I have the right to call anyone a slut, whore, etc., from the outset unless the sub says so. Again, a good Dom has to show a sub he's worth her submission to him as much as she has to prove she can serve well.

There is a huge difference between a sub and a slave. Know the difference.

 Topping from the bottom is never tolerated in any. Being a brat or bitch is a passive-aggressive of topping from the bottom and I will not have it.

"Anything" and "no limits" shouldnt be said unless meant.

While likes and limits are respected, and backing off on something after finding out the fantasy was better than the reality, or that you can only take something to a certain level is understood. So is not being in the mood, physically capable, or prepared for something on occasion, but limits are never an on-again-off-again thing. This goes for slaves in particular.

Sessions and one-offs suck. Long term is sooo much better! Getting to know how a sub responds to something, and being able to expand and enhance on that, to bring out more in her, takes time.

I'm not here to be your free ride. If anything it should be the other way around, but not expected.

Favorite gear: Crops, nipple clamps, TENS units, butt plugs (love using the inflatable ones), gags, blindfolds, scold masks, posture collars, restraints (wrist, ankle, thigh), and a good bare-hand works still works wonders.

Love cuckqueens

I'm a HUGE fan of a great ass and pierced nipples! Also have a thing for women with big nipples, and big  areolas. Also, be into anal.