9/12/2014 1:37:41 PM: To all those 'Dommes*' out there who identify themselves as a cuck-queen: This word, I do not think it means what you think it means.... Cuckquean (‘cuck-qween’ / ˈkʌkkwiːn; ‘cuck- keen’ / ˈkʌk-kiːn ) 1. A female cuckold. 2. A wife who is compliant in her fetish for her husband’s unfaithfullness or adultery Feminine form of late Old English cuckold + Old English cwene, meaning Queen. The true cuckquean will be a willing participant in the sex act between the husband and the third part female and may be subjected to humiliation and degraging sexual acts by both husband and partner. Note on pronunciation: It is pronounced “cuck-queen.” ORIGIN – Feminine form of late Old English cuckold, in turn from Old French cucuault, from cucu ‘cuckoo’ (the cuckoo’s lays its eggs in other bird’s nests). The equivalent words in French and other languages applied to both the bird and the adulterer; + Old English cwene, meaning Queen.* You guessed it, mostly between 18-25, who also grossly misuse/identify the type of domination known as 'Financial Domination.' Ladies, please, get a clue.

9/5/2014 1:48:42 PM: I mention in my profile that Owner grants me a 'long leash.' It's 100% the truth. However,this has more to do with communication with others here and on FL, trusting my judgement, and casual meetings - coffee, bookstore browsing, etc. It in no way shape or form indicates that I am willing to play with/sub for/be a date for anyone or do anything of a D/s or sexual nature.  I'm not interested in dating anyone else, kneeling for anyone else, or fucking anyone else. 'Would your Owner allow it?' The answer to that is it makes no difference. If a person asks me the 'hey can we fuck?' or the mock-respect alternative 'Does your Owner share you?' questions within 10 minutes of knowing me from an online profile the answer is always gonna be no, regardless of my arrangement. That's just SO tacky and super pathetic. Besides, if you read close enough, you can figure out how to contact my Owner directly.

9/1/2014 8:10:14 PM: 'I have been thinking a lot lately about respect. I am confused and saddened when I hear people say 'You have to earn my respect!' I don't agree. I believe we should give respect freely. Just by being a fellow living creature, you deserve to be treated decently, and respectfully. Esteem? That is earned...respect, I believe, is a right. Now, that being said, it is important for people to act in a way that will maintain that respect. Because once you LOSE respect, it is very difficult to regain. But, I prefer to give it freely, and revoke it later, if warranted. Just my Monday Musings,,,,,'--my very very dear friend, Bettie Monroe

8/26/2014 2:55:38 PM: On male dominants hating 'Female Supremacy:' Respecting and admiring the power wielded by another, regardless of gender, is a quality a person who is secure in their power has. By ticking off Female Supremacy as a 'hate' or 'dislike,' a male dominant might as well profess acute aversion to women in general.

7/7/2014 10:06:51 PM: New daily-wear collar came and i am champing at the bit to rip open that package and get it on my neck!