Hello and thank you for reading my profile,

First I want to say that I have been here a while, a bit over 4 years, and I see a lot more findoms the Femdoms. While I have no issue per se with findoms, it is not my thing. In my opinion if you are just looking for money, that does not make you Dominant. It makes you something all together different.(rant edited for length & language)

Who am I?
That is a great question! Many people confuse who and what a person is. I do not, however to truly know who someone is, you have to get to know them. Anything short of that is just not reliable. Generally speaking people see their ideal self, not there true self. So if you want to know who I am, get to know me and you be the judge.

What am I?
An even better question! I am a 44 year old straight male submissive. I have had some major changes in my life that have both changed me and reaffirmed me at the same time. As I said, I am a sub but I would love to be a slave however the reality is that cannot happen unfortunately.

What am I looking for?
I like so many others are looking for happiness. I am looking for a long term relationship. Now I know they do not start out that way, just like in the vanilla world, happiness in a relationship is hard work and takes two. I would love to find my better Half. In looking for my Mistress, I am open to long distance or online to start but know upfront that I cannot relocate. Yes I can and would travel but moving too far is not an option for me.  I am open to meeting play partners as well.

What do I have to offer?

As I said before I am not into findoms, but I am generous and love to give gifts that make you smile. If I am someplace and something reminds me of you, I will buy it, even if it is cheesy, that is just me. I am Loyal. To me loyalty is an important trait. It means that when the chips are down and the whole world is coming at you, I will still be right there with you. I am Honest. If you do not want the truth please do not ask me. It means that even if I messed up, I will tell you the truth as best as I can. I am Respectful. I was raised using terms like Ma'am and Sir and I believe even in the vanilla world they are still appropriate. That means that you can be assured that no matter the setting or situation, I will show you the respect you deserve.

Why do I not have a face pick?

 Well I am sure most can understand the need for discretion. I will be happy to send one if you wish but at this point I am not comfortable posting one on the profile, that may change but not right now.

Thank you for reading my profile and please feel free to ask if you want to know more. I would love to hear from you.