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yourimportant
| Hetero Male, 50, Boston, Massachusetts
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Boston Massachusetts Willing to Relocate 5' 11"
190 lbs
50
Hetero
Caucasian
11/05/23 |
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Hi there,
Dom, sub, switch... I have a lot to say on this subject but will save it for when we talk more directly.
Regarding what you look like, I really don't care. I believe that people have feelings for people because what they carry inside themselves not because of how they look. I was driving down the road once with my 6 year old daughter and she looked out the window and said "look at that pretty lady, I bet she is very nice" to which I had to pull the car over and have a little talk with her and explain that looks does not equate to kindness or safety. (She is not 6 anymore, that was a few years ago)
What else... I am not divorced yet but the marriage is completely over and she knows I date. It's a matter of money at the moment and soon something will be happening that can correct this problem. I am not just looking to fuck around randonmly, but do want to have a connection with someone. I do know this can work as I have been close with woman in the past but have drifted apart due to life changes.
I really haven't had any bad experiences dating. I have been very fortunate to have met so many nice people over the years. I truly care about the people I am with.
Kindness, compassion, unselfishness, creativity, or a willingness to explore - these are the traits I find attractive. If we don't get along, we will simply not talk. I am not a bully nor will I try to convince you to be any certain way. You be you, and I'll be me, and if we get along, then all is good.
I will talk to anyone and like being sociable, so please say Hi.
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12/2/2015 8:38:13 AM: I can move anyplace within the US, so do not let distance be a factor.
3/15/2015 7:26:12 AM: It has taken over a year, but the estate is almost settled and I am very near to beginning a new life.There is light at the end of the tunnel and it is getting brighter and bigger every day.
1/28/2014 7:32:32 AM: My other parent passed away just the other day, about a month after the first.
They are both at rest now.
12/31/2013 3:59:28 AM: I will not be on here all that much for a while. One of my parents recently passed away and the other is not well so I will be caring for that one until I figure out a long term plan.
I am not gone forever and I value all the nice people I have met here.
Thank you all for being kind and supportive.
B
5/24/2012 4:09:33 AM: Someone on here asked me to explain what I meant that looks do not matter to me, so I explained my thoughts to them, thought maybe you would like to read my thoughts as well:
I would not suggest that my thoughts on this subject are the correct thoughts and I respect other peoples opinions on the subject, but to me, physical attraction is NOT the initial attraction I care to base who I talk with. To me, I feel good about the person I talk to when what we discuss is fun and agreeable. Personality has so many elements, looks has one element. You can feel a personality, a personalty shares in your life. I would rather see someone differently beacuse of the way they are then hold a unrealistic feeling about them based on the way they look. I think that after you talk to someone for a bit and find a common personaility that when you do end up sharing a picture that you will not be disapointed. I think I can get a good idea of what someone looks like based on how we have talked over a while because we would have talked about a variety of things such as lifestyle, tastes, interests. But to hear someone say 'He (or she) is hot' and therefore that translates into thats the person for me, is like saying that food looks good therefore it must taste good and that is not always the case.
:)
Now can I have a hug? We both need one after that long speech.
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