Hi. My name is Rob and I am on a journey. To be honest I do not know exactly what I am looking for other than to learn, to make friends, and to figure out who I am and what I want.


As for what I know about myself already. I am

Friendly but hard to get to know
Competent and capable
Someone that easily attaches
Trying to live an authentic life
A geek (I love Sci-Fi, games, and recently introduced to comics)
A lover of NPR (I can never get enough)
Intrigued by nearly all things kinky and perverse )
Inexperienced
Verbose
Open to trying nearly anything and experiencing life
Terrified of needles, blood, well anything medical just makes me woozey
Filled with lots of random tidbits of ination
Wanting to make friends

Please get to know me and help me add to this list.

As for my submission, I know that this is part of who I am but I do not know how it fits yet. I am professionally successful and have held leadership positions in the course of my career. I have learned that I do not want to be the leader. I am most comfortable in the second chair, assisting and helping. When I am in a meaningful role of serving someone else, I find myself content and happy.

However, just because I enjoy being subservient does not mean that I need to be belittled, treated like a child, or demeaned. As I show respect to whomever I interact with, I demand respect in return. In having read threads over the years, it feels like my idea of what a Ds relationship should be conflicts greatly with how most female led relationships are described. If that is the case, I do not mean to be impudent but rather would like to just find the right person for me.

Thanks for reading. I will continue to refine this as time goes on, but wanted you to provide a starting point for you as we begin getting to know one another.