Collarspace

I am primarily seeking a relationship based on Domestic Discipline! If you are seeking kinky sex only, someone to smash your balls, heavy bondage, etc. I am not right for you.

** I do not respond to one line emails! If you cant put time into an introductory email, then I know what kind of sub you will be and I have no interest in that.**

My screen name pretty much says it all. I believe in rules, structure, and discipline. I dont want your money. I dont want you to buy me things to prove your submission. I am a real person seeking a real relationship. I am also far more interested in Domestic Discipline than other aspects of this lifestyle.

Want to know more...write and introduce yourself. Do not send me pictures of your penis. And please dont waste my time with one liners or prefab emails. I will not respond. I would like to know more about you and what you seek. I understand that this site can be frustrating, but if you send a one liner or a prefab email, I know that you are either lazy andor jaded and I dont want either. I am seeking someone fairly close to my age as I am seeking a real relationship that encompasses the vanilla world as well. So please be between the ages of 30 and 44.

Some other thoughts

If you are a male, I am not looking for men who identify as being a sissy or a cross dresser. I enjoy strong, masculine men who happen to be submissive in nature.

I am monogamous. I am not seeking a cuck.

I will not fight you for your submission. I will not beat the submission out of you. I will earn it, but I will not chase after it. I do not seek Doms who want to be beaten into submission. I also do not seek brats who hold their submission above a Dommes head like a dangling carrot. Not interested.

While I consider myself a private person and believe in keeping this aspect of my life private, I have found that many on here are seeking discreet relationships because they are in vanilla relationships and want this on the side. I am not interested in anyone who is looking for something on the side. I will not help you cheat. I am looking for a real, long termrelationship.

Be educated. I enjoy intellectual conversation!

Have a career of your own. (Not for your money!)

Be able to put a complete sentence together. If you arent educated enough to know how to write, then I have no use for you.

** Respect my age preferences. If you are within a year or two, that is fine. You are welcome to say hello. The rest, please dont waste my time or yours!