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The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes. (Marcel Proust)
Come explore my darkness and in it find your enlightenment.
Time savers you may thank me (silently, and to yourself).
If you recognize yourself in any of the following, please save your time and mine by not contacting me (the parentheticals are to help you get to where you someday may recognize you will need to be to find what you seek)
If youre just looking for fun or some kinky play, you wont find it here. (I am not here to amuse you.)
If your idea of being submissive is dictating how you will and will not serve, continue elsewhere. (It tells me you havent yet reflected on who you are and what Ds is.)
If the best you can share about yourself is a sentence or two, or merely a photo of nice tits or ass, move on. (It reveals an absence of the depth I require.)
What I seek does not begin or end with sex. Makingthe physical aspectsof Dsbe allIwish them to be requires thatthere first be connections of the mind, spirit, heart and soul. To achieve these connections,I will want to know you from the inside out and have you come to know me the same way. Once these have been established, I assure you that the physical dimension of things will be absolutely incredible! What this leads to is the requirement for communication - starting here, then chatting online, by phone, and eventually meeting in person should things progress that far.Communication is fundamental not only to getting to know someone but to building the trust that serves as the foundation of the relationship.All human connections, but especially here, sustain only whenbuilt on trust and mutual respect. I do not think of submissives or slaves as weak or doormats, nor do I have interest in anythat are. If you are the type who responds positively to an initial email that says On your knees, bitch, then we have nothing in common. I have observed that the best submissives are women who are intelligent, strong inside, capable of making their own way in the world, and often in control in their day-to-day lives. When such a woman surrenders control, it has a great deal of value. I am a tall, attractive, intelligent, experienced Dom into control, discipline, sensuality, and the mental and emotional connections that lead to intense physical ones.Thesubslave that will appeal to mewillbe intelligent, strong of character, and in possession ofa true understanding of Ds (i.e., no wannabes),a sense of humor and a passion for living life in every way. Experience does not matter to me - mindset does. (IMNSHO, a wannabe is one who THINKS she is submissive but really just wants the attention she can find here so readily. The wannabe is more into only the physical elements - the BDSM - and doesnt understand the essence of Ds.Thus, sheis not able to connect on any levelinvolving Ds at itsher core which are the levels of interest to me.It has nothing to do with experience or lack thereof - its whats in the mind, heart and soul.) The essenceof Ds requires that, havingestablished trust,yougive yourself over to him andrealize thatyour own pleasure comes through serving him to assure his.I am low-key and generally easy-going, but I am also firm and demanding, strict about whatever requirements I place on you,and harsh when you have not given me your absolute best. If you are genuine and serious about your pursuit here, contact me. I promise all who are realan equally real and honest response.Myinitial email will likely be brief astoo many heredisappear quickly or lack the classto respond even with a polite thanks, but no thanks. Anyone serious will taketime to communicateand,if there is interest,begin a dialogue anyone who cant bother has effectively told me all I need to know about her. As you can tell, Im not into b.s. or head games (other games can be totally delightful!). Given a past issue with a stalker, some of the information in the profile is not exact, but is close enough to give you a sense of who I am. I look forward tohearing from you.
I dont know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.
(Albert Schweitzer)
Cling to the feet of a master who can introduce you to yourself.
(Swami Veda Bharati)
Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go. (T.S. Eliot)
When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. (Lao Tzu)
Courage is doing what youre afraid to do. There can be no courage unless youre scared. (Eddie Rickenbacker)
You may be disappointed if you trust too much, but youll be tormented if you dont trust enough.
(Frank Crane)
She must be spread to a new limit, requiring that she learn to drink in the fullness that is her potential when in the presence of her true Possessor.
(ancient sanskrit proverb) When others asked the truth of me, I was convinced it was not the truth they wanted, but an illusion they could bear to live with. (Anais Nin)Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited,whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution. (Albert Einstein)
Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but to pour them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away. (George Eliot)
Everyone sees what you seem to be, few know what you really are....
(Niccolo Machiavelli)
Is it not most transformative, most earthshaking, to pierce the veils of self-deception and illusion, and crack the eggshell of ignorance, to most intimately encounter oneself? (Lama Surya Das)
One can approach the search for a connection of depth and substance by specifying exactly the personal qualities, interests and circumstances one will and will not accept. This narrows the field so much that it is a wonder any two people ever connect at all, and it is the reason so many searches end up frustrated (not just a day, week or month of frustration, but frustration after months or even years). If you know this frustration, try a new approach. Focus on first finding a connection of substance, one beginning with the soul of the other person, then work on figuring out how to make the personal qualities, interests and circumstances work by seeing them not as limits, but as interesting aspects of what makes that person all of who they are. (MasterfulOne4you)
To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
(Bertrand Russell)
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didnt do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. (Mark Twain)
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves we must die to one life before we can enter another.
(Anatole France)
Life shrinks or expands in proportion t
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