7/4/2023 9:24:56 PM: If you're not within 60 miles of me and don't have 'willing to relocate' in your profile', then I'm not going to message you.  I completely understand and respect that inability\unwillingness to move.  I'm not going to bother you if I think you're too far away. That being said.  If you are far away and are open to finding someone and possibly traveling to see them, please either put that in your profile or message me first. I was recently accused by someone on here that this kind of mentality of not wanting to bother folks wasn't 'real alpha behavior'.  Yes.  Thank you.  I have no wish to be a part of that kind of bullshit and bad science.  Six Sigma is a business process, not a lifestyle philosophy.  I will respect you until I own you, then I will respect your value even more, but in a violently sadistic manner.  If I never own you, then I'll continue to give you respect until you do something to lose it.  That’s just decency.      

3/15/2023 10:57:21 AM: Vanilla relationships and monogamous relationships are perfectly acceptable.  However, these things are NOT my interest and are not for me.  While this site is a bit limited in orientation, I identify as a dominant sadist.  While I can enjoy sex occasionally, I tend to require kink as an aspect of my relationship.  I am also an ethical non-monogamist, and require that any partner\playmate be accepting of that. Really, I'm looking for a good person who's understanding and reasonable who I can sexually destroy and finish the evening with hot tea and cartoons under a warm blanket.

12/27/2022 7:01:34 PM: I have, in the past 6 months, been messaged by 2 different men who had something about raceplay in either their messages or in their profiles.  Allow me to be perfectly clear: any racial slur, race play, homophobic slur, misogyny, or domination from any aspect of supposed genetic superiority is a limit.  I grew up having various slurs directed towards myself, family, and friends and they are a quick way to have me block you. I mean the following in an honest and non judgemental way: if you have those desires, I would encourage you to look into your personal history and see why you have those desires or urges and honestly discuss them with a licensed professional.  It is often a product of internalized hatred towards yourself or others through no fault of your own.  Talking with a professional will help you to a much happier place where you can feel more comfortable with yourself and others. BUT, do not send me messages with any form of racial, transphobic, homophobic, or misogynistic slur in them.  It will lead to me immediately blocking you and reporting the message.  Having anything about race in your profile (other than your own) will result in a short message and me blocking you.  You are only harming yourself and it's a hard limit for me.  Consider this your one and only warning.

8/2/2022 6:35:15 AM: I'm vacinated and boosted, but that doesn't mean I'm just going to hop on a plane and sweep you up out of your life. a- that's stupid.  You probably have work and friends and a life (or at least I would hope you would) b- distance is my #1 problem factor.  I genuinely want to play with someone here, in my nice playspace, not in a hotel room. c- COVID is still a thing and I'm not looking to take my chances.  If I do travel, it's by car or train these days unless it's for work.

2/10/2022 3:52:17 PM: Looking to be clear and honest here: I'm open about my lifestyle both in my home and outside of it.  I go to public events and am very open about my lifestyle.  My home (when not in a pandemic) is also clothing optional and can get pretty open with sexuality.  I do kink on stage as well as doing it privately. I'm actively seeking someone who is a masochist open to the public nature of my interests.  I 100% understand that it's not for everyone.  I don't have an expectation that it should be for most kinksters.  However, if we do talk, that will be the working expectation I will have for any future play/relationship.