5/26/2017 10:50:05 PM: I have been back on here for a couple weeks just checking out profiles and seeing what everyone is up to.Still searching for an owner that could put me to good use.Always happy to chat and explore ideas and experiences... who knows what we may find.

7/4/2016 3:12:45 AM: so then there was that gap.being collarspace free was nice... but lets see who's around now.come say

4/11/2014 2:23:28 AM: Come say hi any time... reading lots of profiles...learning all the time...

11/11/2013 12:26:02 PM: just passing through

7/7/2013 10:32:06 PM: Warning this is long, and actually aims to give a Dominant some idea about me... a Clever Domme recently reminded me information is power, and with this information we begin our power exchange.   i have been on here since 2005, and have had reasonable, but sporadic, success in finding what I need. Mostly because i am learning more and more about what i need with each new relationship. I do have an innate need to serve, that much i do know, and I need an owner/s that is/ are up to harnessing this need for our mutual benefit.   I have been inspired by a number of people who have made suggestions and life affirming observations over the years and more recently. I am trying a new approach. I will be trying to cast a broader net, as the pool I have been swimming in has become seemingly smaller after such a long period of time here. The more idea of what it is I want and need, the larger the pool needs to be.   Insanity, was defined by Mr Einstein, or was it a 12 step program!?...(paraphrased poorly) as repeatedly doing exactly the same thing and expecting a different result. That’s been me for some time now…INSANE… apparently. So I’m going to be bold, and actually enunciate, as best I can, what I offer. By enunciating what I offer, maybe some will understand what I need …To be useful   As always, i am seeking friends, networking contacts, and for people to discuss my servant / service submissive side with. Please come and say hello. The best relationships start with someone simply saying hello. If I have said hello to you first, please take it as a genuine attempt at a civil introduction… as clumsy as any social networking hello and my own attempts at communication can be. This is just a ‘lil about who i am, and my journey so far.   Who am I ? I am a self sufficient, busy, outgoing, confident, friendly, intelligent, bisexual guy, seeking network friends, advice, insight and helpful hints. People find me to be independent, approachable, dynamic, energetic, and irreverent. i am service oriented in the real world as my eclectic employment record demonstrates.   Who am I in The D/s World? I didn’t get this far without the support and guidance of some special nds. Without whose tough love, and at times harsh reality checks, influence, experience, and help, i would not be here today. You may not know it, but i have taken on board all suggestions and advice that you have mentioned over the years, despite how helpful, or otherwise intended. I am especially grateful to those whose collars i have worn (only a few in all my D/s experience, i'm not just anyone’s!)...i am indebted to you for always.   I am a serious servant / service oriented submissive, with slavish tendencies, focused first and foremost upon intuitive and pre-emptive servitude. We usually don’t like labels, but i like 'trainer bottom', to crash test dummy!, i prefer 'enthusiastic participant', to 'slut', and 'pain puppy' over masochist.   Over the years (since April 2007) i have been able to exercise, or exorcise, many of these characteristics at über, a venue in Sydney, under the guidance of Miss Dee and Mr P. I have them to thank for many aspects of my growth as a person, and ongoing development as a service submissive. I have been a background support player in many aspects of über operations, development, events, parties and workshops. I will always be drawn to, and seek out, the high level of community involvement über offers, and would look for similar no matter where i was.   i am very particular about whom i play with. I don’t do one nighters. I am privileged to have access to any number of thousands of people that have passed through über’s doors, but reserve my 'play' activities to a very select few. I need connection and trust, to even have coffee, let alone hand my arse over to anyone! I actually seek some form of LTR with a D/s - M/s dynamic. I don’t play the field. I am more interested in learning than i am in collecting a who's who playlist.   Service to my owner I’d like to differentiate myself from the 1000’s of 'Do-me' subbies (i have a writing some where here about Do-me's) out there, by declaring that I seek an eventual long term live-in 24/7 relationship. We all know that the fantasy of 24/7 kink is not sustainable, but let’s start on a relationship first. I am willing to relocate ( I have travelled across town, regions, states across the country and internationally for face to face meets) at my expense and be self sufficient, but as mentioned later some kind of negotiated business bartering can be negotiated.   I also like to differentiate myself from any number of 'Do-mes' out there by providing a substantial list of the services i provide, and have provided. Please see my detailed skill sets listed in the writings 'My skill sets 4.0' [https://.com/users/19215/posts/1640573]   This is part of what i 'Do-for' an owner. If you think it amusing some skills I have noted specifically on this skills set, it was probably specifically identified over the years , as a requirement, by some smart and experienced Dominant... so yes, raconteur and any variety of strange skills have been mentioned, some Dominants want someone capable of representing them in public on their behalf. I don’t add my skills lightly!   What do I do (vocation)? I have worked for a range of not for profit organisations (NFP’s) with those with physical and mental disability, the disadvantaged, physically, emotionally and mentally abused. I have also led and trained students, in extreme and remote environments, from Ivy league universities in the US, military leaders from prestigious academies, to multinational 7-figure-digit corporate execs to be better leaders. I have been a leader , trainer, facilitator and educator, a mentor, a role model, and a leader. I am confident in my training skills.   I am educated with, certificates, a diploma & a degree, (these are just brain food for me, my paramedic degree was for giggles, i may actually use it one day) and am drawn to those with high intelligence and levels of motivation. There is always the possibility of more studies and research of my own, or to assist your academic or professional endeavours. i currently reside in a rural / regional area at present, and travel regularly to the city for work and fun.   What do I do (recreation)? A personal and professional life time association with the outdoors will not diminish. What I do in it, though, has changed. I am a middle aged guy, carrying the extensive wear and tear of my physically misspent youth. So no more running, jumping and hurling myself off cliffs, swirling rivers, surging seas, or deep remote snowy ravines. i have done this here in AUS, and in the US. I am passionate about the environment, but now have a much more matured approach. Though my idea of sedate, probably doesn’t match many other peoples’ idea of a relaxing time! ... in the mean time, Hand me that deck chair...   I ride a mountain bike for recreation and transport. When not studying or travelling, reading fiction under a tree figures prominently. I love big city life with movies, cafes, vitality and deep baths, yet escape to remote B&B’s, and drives down remote trails. These things keep me sane and happy. Remote activities away from the crowd still feature in my life … it’s just more likely to have a spa and an open fire, than a tent and a backpack!   i love to write, and a few lil tid bits are scattered in my writings... most i keep to myself as i tend to rant... i have a long long history of writing journals and rants since the early 80's. i would need to heavily edit them to post here!   What do i seek here? First and foremost, i seek friends and networking contacts. i am not desperate, and have said no many, many more times than yes! I have a range of long term friends here on that i share experiences, and have grown with.   i seek an eventual long term live-in relationship (LTR), female led relationship (FLR)and position as a potential male wife . Would consider other relationship bases, but this is of primary interest to me to form a D/s- M/s dynamic. With non smoking (hard limit, i'm sorry), self assured, intelligent, motivated, passionate , compassionate, height / weight appropriate, relatively fit, active people, (these aspects can be discussed and negotiated, remember I said I had wear and tear, at our age, I expect it) who identify as Dom/mes or tops. I prefer to be wanted (not needed) and to be your background support, and share in an eventual D/s- M/s relationship.   i was recently privileged enough to experience my first true 24/7 live-in M/s relationship, for which i am grateful. I would like to persue this again. Its level of intensity and challenge suits my ingrained work ethic and need to serve in a tangible and substantive way.   It would be nice to have someone 'around' my age (-10+), love the young soul, but prexperienced! Though, a '...throw yourself into it, try everything twice (coz you gotta be sure) attitude'..., trumps all ! yes i was 19 once and knew everything... the older i get the less i know... the same will happen to you too!   Continued [https://.com/users/19215/posts/1648362]