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Please, no messages from Africa......(Know the difference between dominate and dominant. There is no such thing as a dominate man.)MA ( ), OH ( ), FL ( x )

Looking for boy who wants to serve or service his Sir. The boy can be interested in pt or ft service. Can be younger or around Sirs age. Like to do things outside of the house as equals, but understand where boy fits when in a private place. Be self-sufficient and reliable. Sir is not a leatherbound guy. Boy may, if boy wishes, be a leather boy. If boy does not have pictures but has private images and wants a response, then send the private images along with first email.

In no particular order of importance --
Sirs boy will be self-sufficient.
Sir is not a leather dad, nor Old Guard
Sir is passionate, romantic, and sensual, but also assertive.
Sirs boy will be part of the home
Sir does not look for someone to wait on him and serve him, while sitting with his feet up. Sir and boy will share responsibilities. It will be a compromise, not a 5050 compromise, but more a 6060 compromise.

Sirs boy, as well as Sir, will be allowed to exercise his own decisions, and if Sirs boy wishes to enjoy a smoke out with his friends, he may, but never in Sirs presence, and will not bring it home.

Unless previously discussed and agreed, neither Sir nor Sirs boy will fail to return home at the end of the day or evening. Sir and Sirs boy will each ensure they do not become too impaired to return home.

Sir and his boy will enjoy going out, each offering the opportunity to decide their enjoyment together, Sirs boy showing Sir how he likes to enjoy himself--the young one that he is.

Sirs boy knows his Sir will push limits, and will accept. There are very few safe words (Mommy, Daddy, or begging please are not safe words.) If a safe word is used, activity ceases immediately and it will be Sirs decision when and what activities (if any) will resume.

While Sir and his boy will be equals to all, Sir and Sirs boy will show respect, honor, and admiration to each other.

Sir and his boy will be Sirson, Masterslave, Sirsub, or equals, but they will always be You and I.

Sirs boy will know his rightful place and role. Sir will not be demanding, uncooperative, disrespectful, or otherwise unreasonable in expectations of his boy, and will expect the same of his boy.

Whether or not Sir and his boy are open will be something that will be discussed and mutually agreed.

Boy will recognize there are very few nos in play...scat, drugs, 420, blood. Whether or not WS is brought in will be further discussed. Boy does recognize that he will experience extreme TTCBT, as well as electro, wax, and sounds.

Sir is very heavy into assplay, fingers, toys, and will include fisting (a limit which Sir will push.)

Piercings, tattoos will be discussed and mutually agreed. Sirs decision will always rule. (Read this as What Sir says is what happens.)

Sir works in a professional occupation, where he is able to work from home, or wherever he has internet access. Sir also travels for work and can be away for a week at a time. When Sir finishes his workday, he likes to relax and not have to think a great deal when all is done. Sirs boy will work in a position which brings him pleasure.

Sir feels it unnecessary to say condoms are not used.

Sir prefers a submissive son to a slave boy.

Sirs boy will not be Republican nor will he be conservative. Not requiring a blazing, left-wing radical activist, but he will be liberal in his thinking.