Sadistic, Hedonistic, Polyamorous Dom looking for a sub or a slave to train.

I have a few basic expectations. No matter what the relationship, BDSM requires open and honest communication and I expect that from all of my partners.

I enjoy all forms of sadistic play, especially impact play, wax play and am looking for someone who may enjoy electric play and possibly needle play. I'm also moderately experienced with rope bondage.

I am also looking for a service sub. I like someone who enjoys serving for the sake of serving. I have become a coffee snob lately and if you can make a good cup of pour-over coffee you need to message me. I have been getting lots of messages from subbie guys, my age limit is 40.

I am otherwise a practicing physician, former code monkey, cyclist and baseball fan who also enjoys good theater and great sci-fi. Say hi.