Not all who wander are lost....

Hello You,

Thanks for taking a peak at me : ) I am an experienced switch who has enjoyed both sides of the lifestyle, however, I am currently interested in exploring my submissive side. I would like to meet women (sorry, I am not sexually interested in dudes on any level), preferably in the Salt Lake City area, at least within a 100 miles or so, with similar interests; relocation would not be out of the question in the right situation.

I am not a one-night-stand kind of guy and my eventual goal is a relationship with a kindred spirit. However, along the way I would like to meet quality people, form great friendships (really, who couldn't use some kinky friends to grab a beer with?) and have a generally awesome time.

Outside the bedroom, I am very outgoing. I enjoy all outdoor activities, from sky diving to scuba. I also like cooking, quiet conversations (casual, intimate or deep are all fine as long as they are meaningful), reading books, cracking jokes and long walks holding hands (or leashes : )

Ideally I am looking for a woman who is free spirited, fun and happens to be as kinky as twisted wire, is self-assured with a reasonably functional life...someone who is happy and loves having fun!

I am both emotionally stable and gainfully employed. Culturally, I value experiences and relationships over material possessions.  I love travel, both planned vacations and spontaneous weekend getaways.

I am not looking for a sex-only connection. Over the years I have had many successful relationships with wonderful women; however, I seek and need a woman who is interested in exploring and broadening our sexual roles and limits as well living our vanilla life to the fullest.

As friends first and later more, we would go to dinners, movies, road trips, travel, hang out in bookstores and coffee, shops, check out the local scene, music, a little culture and the like, as well as exploring all of the other fun things two compatible people can share.

I really value the investment involved in getting to know someone first. It is important for me to trust someone before I surrender myself and I can't do that with someone I don't know and respect.

Intimately, once we were alone pretty much anything is on the table that does not leave permanent visible marks (obvious limits include other dudes, kids, blood, poo or animals).

Logically, if I am looking for someone like you, then you must be out there looking for someone like me.

Let's find each other and see where it goes...

Best,

-d.