Wifewantedcalif e ones that didnt bother to ask my name or what I needed in a sub caused the line to be added.

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Wifewantedcalif

Male Dominant, 56, Sf bay area, California US

I am at a point in my life where, it has become apparent that I need a sub wife. I find functioning alone is useless. so I seek a submissive for lifestyle relationship and possible marriage, the Marriage of course will have to be earned just like a collar is earned I AM SEEKING A REAL TIME RELATIONSHIP , marriage would be the dream result of the relationship but not the goal. so for all that feel I shouldnt use the word earned in regards to marriage, I will say this, all strive to earn a collar, and hold it higher then the wedding ring( I say this by number of married women on here needing a Master) so tell me if you strive to earn a collar ( which has none of the legal contations that the wedding ring does.) why shouldnt I demand that wedding is also earned?? I must make a little clearer since I still recieve such answers , the wife wanted in my name is an ideal not a must, the ideal situation would end in marriage, but realistically I hope just for real time My statement about earning the marriage was added, not to sound crass, but because early answers were running along the line of immediate marriage. Marriage is never immediate, the ones that didnt bother to ask my name or what I needed in a sub caused the line to be added.

9/21/2017 7:00:28 PM: I have had the pleasure of complimenting a woman on here,her answer was not a gracious thank you, no it was to tell me I was being too familiar with the words I used, i didnt offer anything beyond a compliment. tell me I am confused, as a man am I not supposed to notice beauty< as a Dom should a sub vilify me for my wording?? 7/19/2017 6:05:53 AM: I tend to contact submissives that state they want real time or a long term situation. This is a reasonable way of conducting a search for a compatible person. Strangely enough 95% of the sub's that have they themselves say they need a LTR, don't respond and block me for I guess my stupidity in actually reading their profile and thinking they telling the truth. I will not say these subs are as everyone tends to yell FAKE, FAKE,but instead have very poor manners and are more commitment phobic then I am.(and that is saying a lot) 10/5/2015 11:03:27 AM: I have just been told that iam delusional for offering the idea of marriage, basically since I hadnt elaborated on what I actually mean. to paraphrase the I am delusional since I do npot show how I would be contributing to the relationship. my understanding is simple, the idea of collaring and caring for a sub or a slave is simple. I as a Dom offer the collar as a symbol of my intent to care for and protect my submissive partner. The submissive accepts and wears my collar as a symbol of my having earned the trust etc. needed for relationship to for both fulfilling and strong. If Iam wrong someone please tell me, since my statement about the wedding ring being earned like a collar was the point of contention in the message. I offer marriage simply to assure that my sub partner will be respected and well provided for after my death. I hope this makes my words easier to understand . I mean since the basic idea offered in profile is simple premise, all will note I make a point of not offering much in way of interests etc, the dynamic is built between Dom and sub isnt always for the world to know, the following is the message I received... """What makes it ridiculous is the idea that what you have is unilaterally worth earning, while you make no apparent effort to earn the marriage yourself--or the respect and trust of your theoretical future wife. You've given your audience absolutely no reason at all to think you ate dome grand prize worth striving for in the first place, especially if you yourself are going to make no effort. It's breathtakingly delusional, this expectation you've formed.""" My expectations seem obvious to me. 9/9/2015 1:00:47 PM: wow. so far my answers have been great in the ide a of long term relationship, but the few that misunderstand the point of the profile are vicious in response to the word wife and marriage, and even the idea that I suggest earning marriage like one would a collar. none have a problem with EARNING A COLLAR, A LESS SUBSTANSIVE IDEA . the point of the wording is simple. I WILL NOT JUMP INTO A MARRIAGE LIKE SOME ON HERE JUMP INTO THE IDEA OF WEARING A COLLAR, SO YES IN A WAY YOU WILL EARN THE MARRIAGE PROPOSAL JUST LIKE IN VANILLA, YOU WORK AT AND CONVINCE IS RIGHT( AND IF THAT DOESNT QUALIFY FOR THE PHRASE EARNING THE POSITION, WHAT THE HELL DOES??)B