9/15/2022 11:56:43 PM: The online world killed interaction and communication.   People say something but are not communicating. People are hearing but not listening.   There is no will to put energie in a friendship or relation. It made people dull and emotionless.

9/11/2022 12:41:28 AM: I am always curious how people meet after being here on CS. It is so important to express who you are and what you need else you might get more than wished for. It is confusing ( to me) when people say I am a sub slave. Or saying I am submissive or kajira. Sub, slave and kajira or 3 different things to me. To someone else they could be all the same. The risk is that if you introduce yourself as kajira (a Gorean slave) you will meet other behavior from me than when you say Submissive.   We never read about this stuff. But it is so interesting. 

9/10/2022 12:58:31 PM: Are mail filters helping or are you still searching

9/9/2022 7:57:54 AM: Does experience enhace assholisme

9/7/2022 12:10:18 PM: Catagories Master,slave, Dom, sub...don't say much.  They are like cities, but you still have the districts, the neigborhouds, the streets..and the houses. The human behind a slave or sub goes way deeper than the title. But after a few years in BDSm you know that..and it is still full of supprises..as you meet different people over and over. I guess that is why experience doesn't always say much. Yes skills can be interesting for a whip or shibari....but for the person behind it 'experience' everytime starts over and over. (even with the same person after several years).