Collarspace

I have never done the online thing before so I guess Im just gonna lay everything out, good and bad, and see what happens. This is all things youd find out pretty quickly anyway, since I try to be very open, so why waste your time.

Who I am (Vanilla) Im LDS (Mormon) and my religion is central to who I am, and it would need be to you too. I was an Eagle Scout and that may be a great way to broadly sum up my traits. I went through a really bad divorce a few years back(no kids involved). It took outrageous amounts of time, money, and resources and ended up with me bankrupt, losing my house, and having to move back home to recover. My family is very important to me, and as my parents health has declined recently Ive had cause to stay with them and help them out. I have a job that Im very passionate about, but is extremely stressful (it compares to the stress levels of an air traffic controller for example). I work a lot of crazy hours, days and nights, but I hope to be able to recover financially and retire early. Politically I would describe myself as Right LeaningLibertarian. I enjoy working out regularly, but prefer the gym to a hike. I love video games, tabletop, going to the range, and Pro Wrestling. I love movies and my favorite genre is Horror. Im more of a dog guy, but Im ok with cats too(currently dont have any pets).

Who I am (Kink) I enjoy being the Master in a Ms 247 TPE. My ex was completely Vanilla, and after all of that, I came to realize that it wasnt just a fun thing I missed, but something I needed to feel fulfilled. I enjoy making rules, and being served both in the bedroom and domestically. I prefer to be loving and romantic, but will enforce the rules and expectations when needed. I can also be more dominant and demanding if thats what you prefer, but I dont have to be for my pleasure. I try to be creative in both the fun and the punishments, always trying new things. Im always willing to adapt to punishments and kinks you have as well. I am working on getting the body I want to have and would expect you to work out as well. When it comes to looks, styles, and body types I find attractive, it can range pretty widely, but a couple off the top of my head I really like would be a fitness model body, Pinup, or to some extent bimbo (I am a breast guy for sure). My last girlfriend made a comment once about how she wanted porn-like sex but it never really happens. Well, why not? I like rough dominating sex. I like going all out every time. I want to get crazy and messy. I want us to talk dirty and learn exactly what turns each other on the most. I want us to need soundproofing on all the walls so the neighbors stop calling the cops. I also want us to have incredibly passionate sex, where the world disappears and we are the only people that exist and matter. I love the control and the rules and the fun of BDSM, but I also love the trust and connection and passion that comes with it. There are tons of kinks of course but a quick list of my faves would be gaggingcum swallowingfacials, breathplay, collars and cuffs, king, body worship, orgasm control(my dream would be that I could make you orgasm just by telling you to), begging, and tasks (both sexual and domestic).

Dynamic I want someone who, to the outside world, is an amazing, strong, independent, and wholesome girlfriendwife who loves and supports me. When were alone I want my needs and pleasure to be her ultimate concern. I want her to be completely devoted to me, mind, body and soul. I want her to get excited when I ask her to get me a drink, and when I say thank you, in a room full of friends, she has a mini orgasm at fulfilling the task properly. I want her to learn my favorite recipes, and learn exactly where I want things organized. I want to come home from work and have her ready and willing to do whatever needs to be done to make me comfortable and prepared for the next day. I love rewarding my sub with new toys and outfits from time to time. I love going on trips or even just a stay-cation at a nearby hotel room so we can get room service.
I know that what Im looking for is incredibly niche, and if that isnt you no worries and I hope you do find your other half someday. Thanks for reading. and feel free to message me with questions and whatnot.