I am an experienced sensual Dom, I utilise safe words and provide excellent aftercare. 

I now have a sub who is bi, we are looking for a suitable second sub woman to join us, she will need to be bi, or willing to try!!

I am retired, divorced, single and have recently moved to Southampton.

As a person I am trustworthy, honest, polite and nurturing. I enjoy the great outdoors: hiking, camping, cycling and paddle boarding. 

Kink wise; I'm into different fetishes like role play, bondage, corporal punishment, medical examinations and orgasm control. 

I have developed a strong fetish for milking a Hucow, a woman with a desire to be milked.

Looking to offer more, I have bought a pussy/clit vacuum pump and a fucking machine. 

I am looking for a younger woman ideally between mid 30s to mid 40s for long term and wouldn't rule out living together either for short periods to suit her lifestyle or long term relationship.

BDSM and kink in general is not just about barking orders or being able to handle, or withstand, a whip. There is a deep psychological trust that is built. To be able to trust someone so completely, to give not only your body but also your mind to them and know that they will be looked after. 

I love all sorts of play, nothing is off limits to talk about, other than illegal. Dark kink fetish is ok.