I sometimes come across as a bit shy but I just take getting

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	I sometimes come across as a bit shy but I just take getting to know you first and then I am extremely outgoing. I am a very intelligent, opinionated, independent woman who knows how to be in charge when needed however, for the right man, I am completely submissive and able to give up complete authority to him. I am extremely faithful, loyal, honest and respectful and expect the same What I seek in a black man is an intelligent, strong, confident man who knows what he wants, has strong natural dominant tendencies and an ability and desire to reign me in and to push me. I need one who is strict and firm. I have a need to please and get great pleasure from having a Dom who is pleased with me. Im looking for a man who has no problem telling me what he expects from me as i really take comfort in knowing the boundaries.I love being kissed firmly and passionately - and often.Also, I am a BBW so make sure that you are ok with that before contacting me.

3/16/2013 2:32:19 PM

Proven right yet again

5/8/2011 9:02:41 AM

Really kind of dislike Mother's day.

10/31/2010 8:00:09 PM

One thing I have learned in life is that the best way to get what you want is not to go bad-mouthing it. There are men on here who describe what they want and then they proceed to, in journal posts, put down and bad mouth that particular type calling them nasty names and such. Don't expect to find one that way! lol

4/13/2010 9:47:53 PM

Well, I think I'm going to give up - can't even get to be friends with someone without that being fake or being lied to and used.

4/11/2010 5:05:59 PM

Had a very wonderful afternoon - just wish it hadnt gotten interrupted!

4/8/2010 10:22:26 PM

Well, things are looking up - as long as what's being told is fully truthful. So we shall see!

3/25/2010 11:34:15 PM

What is the deal with after getting to know someone for a while and thinking things are ok, he comes up with 'i get it, you just don't want to be with me/speak to me'. Of course, I respond with 'where the heck did that come from' to which I never get a response - how could I...it's not anything that could be remotely implied at all in any conversation! Have come to the conclusion that it's just one more of the fakes ways to get out of the situation of meeting.

1/21/2010 1:28:06 PM

Beginning to feel like it's not even worth it anymore. Was taking a bit of a break to work through some things and get to know the people I have already met. Being decieved repeatedly by people who just can't be honest is just too much to handle sometimes.

1/20/2010 9:42:18 AM

Just because a man is a dominant does not mean that if you are a submissive, you have to be submissive to him.

1/17/2010 1:19:32 PM

Why is it that you can tell someone up front what it is that you are looking for and you think that person understands this concept and is fine with that. After a bit of discussion back and forth though, you get this rude message about how you are 'closed minded' because you don't change what it is that you are looking for right now - lol. Right now, friends is all that i am looking for in this lifestyle as i am fed up with being screwed over by fakes and wanna-be's. That's not to say that IF in making friends with someone, my feelings won't change - they very well could. For one thing, in my opinion, people really need to work on being friends first anyways.

9/25/2009 8:34:29 PM

i am just so sick of all the fakes on here - don't get what the appeal is to fake your existence!