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Especially important to me are intelligence, manners, and the ability to communicate one's thoughts and ideas in a concise and eloquent fashion. At the same time, emotional connection is paramount, even at the friendship level.
I have interests outside of BDSM and would be interested in knowing people who have interests other than BDSM as well.Good food, wine and conversation, is a start. For professional and personal reasons, I will ain from providing personal information,at this moment in time.but I would be happy to talk in more detail if you're interested.
If married attached in any way ..please pass on by.
If bisexual or younger than 53..please pass on by
IM a bbw if this doesnt suit..please pass on by...to another profile
Do not think that just because you are a Dominant person that I am to automatically bow down to you. Respect is earned both ways.
If we have a conversation or two doesn't mean that I will jump and meet you in a week's time. Safety is always FIRST AND FOREMOST!!!
I am a BBw....get over it
Can I just point out, the following is My opinion, No need for the hecklers thanks.
10 cold hard facts about submission:
- If the Dominant wants to collar you before meeting you, building with you, getting to really know you they are a control freak NOT dominant.
- submission is inspired not demanded, only the insecure demand it.
- Sending naked pictures of yourself to a so called Dom because he demands them is not submission it's feeding his collection of pictures to get off to.
- You choose to submit to One and one alone.
- The submissive holds the power in a D/s relationship but gives it freely to their Dominant.
- There is no place in this life for abuse, everything is consensual.
- A Dominant never ignores their submissive.
- A Dominant is always in control of their feelings at all times.
- Dominance and submission are states of mind not something that is turned on and off.
- A submissive is an equal and will always be treated with respect
Facts of a Dominant
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1.Courtesy - They have politeness and good manners in the traditional sense of the word and will show this to all they communicate with whether via e mail or within chat rooms.
2.Respect They will always be respectful in their approaches, showing an appreciation of the other and being mindful of how their communication is perceived.
3.Honesty They will be totally honest in how they communicate, ask a question they will answer it in a detailed way, there will be nothing vague. They will tell you their thoughts when required.
4.Integrity They will be consistent in their interactions with you, you will always know where you stand. There is no hidden agenda.
5.Confident Do not confuse confidence with arrogance, they know and understand themselves in all aspects of their life. They will not be boastful but will give their opinions specially when asked.
6.Selfless They will want to know about you rather than telling you about themselves. They will have provided the majority of information for early communication on their profiles so have no need to talk about themselves unless you ask when they will be happy to provide the additional details.
7.Unassuming They do not make a big issue over things, their focus is on the girl not themselves. They have no need of causing or being part of any drama, they will state their opinion and qualify it where and when needed.
8.Knowledgeable I nearly wrote intelligent or educated but settled on knowledgeable as it is more fitting and easier for me to qualify. They understand what a submissive needs, understand the deeper cerebral aspects of D/s, understand it is not just about sex and certainly understand that it is the submissive that holds the power within a D/s relationship and that she chooses to give it freely.
9.Assertive There is a power in how they communicate, it holds the readers attention, makes them want to know more, piques the interest. It is this that gets them noticed, makes them stand out. Not the posturing, aggressive, crass and down right obscene ranting that some mistake for overt misguided displays of dominance.
10.Chivalrous (adj) (of a man or his behavior) courteous and gallant, especially towards women. They do challenge inappropriate behavior, make no apology for doing so and will always do so.
In short they are consummate gentlemen, this is first and foremost and their dominance is an enhancement to this, an important part of the greater whole person. They see their submissive as their most treasured possession, one to cherish and nurture, one to guide and allow to be the best they can be under their dominance. They do not just see the girl as she is but see how she will become. They see her as the yin to their yang.
They inspire submission
This is My opinion...no set routine or agenda a mere guideline for A/all to follow.
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'A mediocre Master orders, a good Master teaches, an excellent Master explains, But A True Master Inspires' A sub should have the strength to say 'NO'. Slaves must have the strength NOT to say 'NO'. Which one are you? A STRONG MAN CAN HANDLE A STRONG WOMAN.....A WEAK MAN WILL SAY SHE HAS AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM |
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https://vimeo.com/92403817
That Man knows how to kiss. |
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Am I unusual? ....I seek a long-term relationship rather than a quickie. I actually believe that the best form of relationship comes from intimacy and trust and that can only be achieved within the framework of an LTR.....Am I THAT unusual?
I couldn't ever be a slave...for to me beatings are not best for me...yes for me it is all about safe sane consensual. |
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Few are willing to brave the disapproval of the echoes of their upbringing, or risk the censure of their colleagues, the wrath of their family to seek what is within. This type of courage is a rarer commodity than bravery in battle or great intelligence. Yet it is the one essential, vital quality for those who seek to find that which yearns to be freed from within that can be most painful to free.
we strive to find one that understands our individual kink...setting free the mindset to be who we are....acceptance is an aphrodisiac |
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**I will view your profile. When I view it and if your profile isn't filled out, or "Profile can't be found", I am not interested.** (This goes for the chat rooms as well - I am NOT going to "chat" to someone younger, or play 20 questions with a profile that is hidden/not filled out or has a couple of sentences in it.) **
** Don't expect me to change my life, or suddenly drop everything to cum to you after "chatting" online, or via phone/skype/online, I got stuff going on too. **
** If you're really looking for a Nurse, housekeeper or someone to just suck your cock, move on....** |
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When she's abandoned her moral centre and teachings...when she's cast aside her fa�ade of propriety and lady-like demeanour...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me. "
maybe not everything dished out...that might be a little extreme for me...the rest sounds good though. |
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- "The number one job of the Dominant is to continually seduce consent from the bottom." ~ Joseph Bean
- In M/s, use brings pleasure, but only control brings fulfillment.
- A mediocre Master tells, a good Master teaches, an excellent Master explains, but a True Master inspires.
- Mastering others requires force; Mastering the self needs strength. - Lao Tsu
- He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still. Lao Tzu
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- A dom is not a dom because he is better; he is better because you let him be....
- “It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.” Cherise Sinclair, Dark Citadel
- "Submission can be given. It cannot be taken. Although sometimes it feels like it's been ripped out of you without you even thinking when the right person comes along." (H. Firehawk)
- Submission is not about being used, submission is about being of use. submission is not about what is done to you, submission is about what you do for others.
- A strong man needs a woman at his feet who is truly his.
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I do not do cyber ....go rub off somewhere else. |
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Respect builds Trust, Trust builds Future, Future builds Relationship, Relationship builds DS... makes sense?? In life what you say has no value, only what you do has real value. |
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Knowing and believing in yourself is far more important than attempting to prove to others that you are worthy. There will always be those in your life that will not approve or understand you. Living genuinely, breathing into the reality that humans have faults and loving without judgement is my life journey. Those that cant handle that can simply move along ...... |
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Im beginning to believe this site is only useful to visit to waste time on.
Why are there so many fakes players and wanabees around, why do people think its fun to play with others emotions
You read on here about doms complaining about subs not turning up to agreed meetings or not respond to a polite message, block delete messages unread and make new profile with same likes etc...
equally so it works in the reverse...doms not meeting or returning a call when they say they will do so. or meeting and saying whatever excuse comes into their heads..
Karma is a great thing...have done unto you what you bestow unto others |
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To have someone consider you in your absence and be moved by emotion; lust, desire need whatever is incredibly powerful.
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Sometimes it is Not what you say , that speaks the loudest.
I get it. |
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Treat people as if they are
what they ought to be
and you will help them become
what they are capable of becoming'
- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
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The dabblers who call themselves submissives usually have no idea what submission involves.
If you enjoy being restrained during sex… you are not necessarily submissive.
If you are attracted to a strong-willed man… you are not necessarily submissive.
If you wear a collar
and know how to nadu… you are not necessarily submissive.
If you always do what everyone tells you to do… you are not necessarily submissive.
If you cooperate with a Master because you have no choice… you are not necessarily a submissive.
If you allow a Master to do only what you want him to do… you probably are not submissive.
If you tell a Master only what you think will get you laid… you probably are not submissive.
If you think you could roleplay as submissive sometimes… you probably are not submissive.
What are the differences between a bogus submissive and a genuine one? To me, the difference is a matter of character and nature. Some people play a submissive role. But some of us find that submission reveals our truest selves, our deepest, most authentic nature. Submission isn’t about what we do. Submission is about who we are.
Does the idea of surrendering complete control of yourself to a trusted Master thrill you? Does the excitement increase the more you surrender? Are you turned on by the thought of permanently abandoning your will to his? If so, then you probably are a submissive.
On the other hand, if it fills you with dread and suspicion, you probably are not a submissive.
The acid test comes the first time the Master directs you to do something you really don’t want to do. Many women are willing to play a submissive role temporarily—as long as she trusts that the Master will do exactly what she wants him to do to please her. There is nothing wrong with that. But it isn’t submission, it’s just cooperation. True submission is complete surrender. Of course you want pleasure, and a good Master wants that for you. But TPE submission means completely letting go of your own will, and trusting him, without setting your own pleasure as a condition. For a true submissive, that very act of surrender is the pleasure—that intoxicating rush of letting go and giving yourself to him. |
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The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself. - Oscar Wilde |
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Most men aren't smart enough to realize that the higher you elevate your woman, the less available she is for other men. When you break her down, you make her accessible to anyone she thinks will treat her better. |
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Its an interesting read.
www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html |
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To laugh is to risk appearing a fool* ~ To weep is to risk appearing sentimental* ~ To reach out to another is to risk involvement* ~ To expose your feelings is to risk rejection* ~ To place your dreams before the crowd is to risk ridicule* ~ To love is to risk not being loved in return* ~ To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure* ~ But risks must be taken, because the greatest risk of all is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing and has nothing. ....One may avoid suffering and sorrow, but .... one cannot grow and .... one cannot feel, one cannot change, one cannot grow and ......... one cannot love. Chained by one's attitudes, one is a slave. Only the person who risks is truly free.Taking risks ...... sharing a smile and ....wishing you a life of risks, you don't ........ regret making |
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| Age: 20 |
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