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copy and pasted from okcupid, which i use way more than this. the links all take you to the tags on okcupid. this is not on purpose, i just don't want to go through it and edit the tags out.
you should message me if you are mr. man.
i am interested in men 30-48 who are doing good in the world, not skinny, have a full beard, and are dominant. i have a particular weakness for blond and red headed men. i am not looking to be collared, but rough, near-violent, aggressive men with machismo are the only ones i'm not bored by. the way it always goes is i'll meet someone and maybe really dig their personality and he'll turn out to be one of those guys who takes his cues from romantic comedies and thinks that sweet, soft tickling and caressing of my skin is foreplay, or who puts dominance on like a costume (contrivance), or is only half a shade left of vanilla but identifies as dominant without really knowing what it means to be a caveman and that the taking takes precedence over permission. i'm not into degradation, but i'm looking for someone who can take charge and treat me like the young thingthat i am. let me stir your imagination: given the first opportunity, you may channel the pervasive thought you've always had that a woman could not be your peer, and it comes out artfully - i'm in my place up against the wall, and you may eat me alive for your own benefit but you're moving with such grace, applying speed and pressure to my body in a dance that we both know the steps to... in any case, your body knew me before you did, and it's your body that's introducing me to you.
you rip into me hard and fast as if you've been on a starvation diet of lentils for ten months and i'm a steak, in front of you, for you. i am for you. take.
of course i need you to be hungry, but i'm not available to anyone whose palate is not receptive to complex tastes, and, at the end of the day, a mindfuck. your touch should show me that you have acaveman mentality, unobscured by women's rights and that you know i'm good for the one thing, which is yours if you know how to take it and take me. it's the force of the taking and the taboos, not the orgasms, that will make me eager to see you again.
don't let the aftertaste go forgotten
my knowing what i want sexually does not equate to my wanting casual sex. i'm bored with casual sex. i want to feel connected to someone, and women and gay men hate me... you, horndogs, are all that's left for me in the world. maybe one day i'll meet mr. man, who can give me a look and leave in his wake a dance party of kinky butterflies in my stomach and a puddle in my panties, dizzy with lust - the state i feel most at home in, the reason why i'm here. to be excited. be that consistent source of unadulterated arousal, and i'll be that insatiable object society promised you.
message me if you're an educator who likes thick chicks and you want to screw the top off my skull and pour in what's really important. message me if you're a manual laborer who wants a legitimate chance at holding down my body. message me if you're misanthropic. message me if you have more to say than "nice rack." message me just to say "nice rack." message me if you know you can handle me. message me if you assume i've already said yes.
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message me if D/s means more than punishment to you. i'm a good girl and i don't respond to being called a bad girl. i put up with it, though, because the climate is tough. please, please, feel free to start an intelligent conversation with me about this.
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i get flaked on (after messaging with someone and making tentative plans, i send a message asking to firm up the plans a little while before we're supposed to meet, and they don't answer, and i never hear from them again) at an alarming frequency. we don't know each other, and you don't owe me anything, but if you're going to ask me on a date, know that this situation hurts my heart.
please don't contact me if you identify as polyamorous.
i am not interested in anyone who is not dominant (i am not interested in switch men), a kinsey zero, and more or less american.
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this is something i said in a skype conversation with a long distance friend, when he turned his nose up at the idea of painful sex:
well, considering how far "painful sex" goes for some people, i don't identify with that. but now that i think about it, i guess i like pain more than i'm, like, supposed to? but the difficult part is that i'm very particular which body parts i like to recieve pain in.
i hate guys biting the meat of my ass, legs, breasts, stomach, etc. but need my nipples to be bitten. i had anal sex once and afterwards i hid in a corner and cried, but i love one finger there. one spank is great, ten is a nightmare. throwing my body into objects is ideal. grabbing my breasts and puttng pressure towards them is ideal. grabbing my breasts and squeezing them and pulling on them is horrific.
and god, choking? if i could just find a man to choke me in earnest i think i'd go ahead and buy a wedding dress. |
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