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I only respond to people who've actually read my profile. Besides, you want to read it. I took a lot of time and care in creating it, so the least you could do is spend the 5 minutes to read it.
I'm a queer as shit, motorcycle riding, sadistic tomboyish dyke who enjoys intelligent kinky women with radical leftist politics (no-wave feminism, anti-ism/phobia, anarchism, etc.). Since I love bulleted lists:
- Lesbian means exactly that. I don't do male identified folks, cis or trans. If you aren't female and woman identified don't message me thinking to get your dyke fetish on. Trust me you're not the exception to the rule. This isn't that hard to grok and I really don't get what point of "No, fuck off" some folks don't get. That said, I'm always up for non-sexual guy friends.
- I'm a geek. It is as part of my identity. It doesn't mean I collect comic books. It doesn't mean I know which episode in Star Trek, Kirk did whatever. It does mean that I've helped create things you'd probably know about. It colors how I interact with the world from my sleep patterns to my play style. And yes, that means I like playing with electricity.
- I'm funny as hell in an irreverent kind of way. So funny, my friends keep a quote book: Latest (said to a friend): "It doesn't mean I don't love you, it just means that you're a crappy person."
- I'm uber-introverted. Which is weird for lots of reasons. I'm a total wall flower until someone engages with me. Social situations are generally uncomfortable for me unless I know a few people. I working on it.
- I'm smart, clever and a dyke oriented sapiosexual. I like smart people who can do things, build things, make something from nothing. I like a good discussion about highly technical things. A girl talked to me last night about how she could rebuild a carburetor with her eyes shut and my heart skipped a beat.
- I'm monogamish. It's not because I have some moral issue with poly, it's just that for me, I barely have enough time for one person, let alone more than one and I firmly believe that if I'm with someone and care about their well being I don't have the task switching capability to deal with more than one. That doesn't mean I'm against it, or a prude, nor does it mean that I couldn't see myself in a non-monogamous situation. I just find it highly unlikely due to time constraints.
- I try very hard to be honorable. I don't cheat. I don't lie. I am straightforward and express my needs. The only two things in life that money can't buy is time and a good reputation and I refuse to waste my time on people with bad reputations. I expect others in my life to do the same. I'm surprisingly not let down very often.
- I don't drive U-hauls. I've had one too many short term relationships blow up due to not being friends first. So, wanna go have coffee and get to know each other on an equal basis? Sure. Want to play? Maybe, after we've had coffee and discussed what we're looking for. Want to hop in bed and hope a relationship is going to form out of that? Not going to happen.
- SSC. Period. I play hard, but I play safely and conservatively. I don't do edge play with people I've never played with before, I'll spend a hell of a long time talking to someone before I play with them and I never hit my normal level of intensity during an initial session. Fun tidbit. If we meet IRL ask me how someone puking on me made me a better Sadist.
- I'm trans. I transitioned back when your cell phone was the size of a brick. I don't discuss it with people I'm not close to, and even then it's not something that comes up much. I don't even list it as my gender because it's not (it's a modifier to my gender, not my gender). If this is something you would care about we won't mesh at all.
- While I'm 420 friendly and drink friendly, people who are stoned/drunk constantly need not apply as I will not play with someone if they're fucked up. If you're stoned or drunk you can't consent.
- Oh, and if you message me, put in the word Snuffleupagus in your message. It tells me that you've actually read my profile. And who doesn't like Mr. Snuffleupagus.
I'm looking for a smart, strong, self-reliant, confident female masochist/sub/bottom who knows who she is and what she wants. Challenges welcome and appreciated, I love brats. I haven't played publicly in PDX (just getting my feet wet after years in a LTR) and have only a few ties to the local community, but I do have play references from my prior locale and personal ones from people here.
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