Hello, and thank you kindly for stopping by. I'm at the point in my life where I would enjoy a meaningful connection with a woman with whom we both share a passion for the bdsm dynamic. Most of us would like an occasional vacation from our normal everyday roles, and I would like to explore them within the context of trust, safety, and friendship. I believe in safe, sane, and consensual play that involves a meaningful connection as well as respecting each other boundaries. I'm fine with taking time to get to know each other before we consider taking things to the next level. I'm married and hope to meet someone who understands that I can not make a full time commitment. Yet, we can share a long term friendship, and take the time to address our deepest needs.
What I bring to the table is a vast knowledge of the D/S dynamic, good communication skills, and a sensitive heart that wants to touch you deep within. I'm tall, medium build, handsome, kind, and intelligent. If you are a submissive woman, I would love to meet you. I understand submission and I can take you deep into the subspace that you so deeply long for. If you can switch, that would be nice. If you are not comfortable switching, that's OK as well. I can be wise, kind, and wicked.
Write me today and tell me about your needs. Let’s start with a friendship and open the door of trust. I think that you are going to be pleasantly surprised when you meet me.

What I imagine is exchanging a few emails and then meeting briefly in a public setting for coffee. After we both part ways, we can email each other back if we feel comfortable with taking things to the next level.

The tale of the treasured slave...
She came to me through an ad that I had placed online. Her first email was brief, explaining to me that she fantasized about being spanked, yet I knew that she was looking for reassurances before she could allow herself to surrender to such activity. The usual polite conversational email exchanges occurred for a few weeks before she worked up the courage to meet me for coffee. I knew that this was a big step for her, and that she would obviously have mixed feelings about meeting a total stranger, especially about discussing the topic of Domination and submission. Yet... she knew as well as I did, that her desire to experience these things, were not going to go away. I knew what she thought about when she masturbated, because I had asked her about this issue in our email exchanges. And now she was going to meet a man who already knew her very private sexual secrets.
We met for coffee at a downtown Coffee People store, and as our conversation began, I could sense her nervousness as well as her excitement. We traded the usual polite conversation that most people have, when I caught her off guard..... by looking deeply into her eye's and softly asking.... how long have you been masturbating to the fantasy of being tied up and spanked? Her eye's look down to the table...And the very next moment, was the first moment in her life, where she truly experienced openness with a man, as she expressed to me what she truly longed for. She surrendered to my request and I was proud of her. She had taken the first step in her journey of surrender and trust. After our conversation I stood up and told her that it was a privilege to meet her and that I would wait to hear from her via email. I explained to her that she had a lot to think about, and that I would wait to hear from her before planning to actually get together to play.
Our first play session took place at my house. We had become comfortable with each other through email and phone calls, and I invited her over. When she arrived, I took her hand and lead her directly to my bedroom. I told ( not asked ) her to strip down to her panties and bra, and stand facing the end of the bed. I also told her to keep her hands at her side as I placed a blind fold over her eyes. The rules for my first session would be that she could take the blind fold off at anytime, but if she did, the session would be over. And she agreed.
I found great pleasure looking at her. I gently began spanking her panty covered ass and began to tease her about wanting to be spanked. I could hear her breathing start to get heavier as I alternated between softly spanking and exploring the crack of her ass on the outside of her panties. Bend over on the bed my sweet pet... and she eagerly obeyed my order. I could see that her panties were already getting wet as I continued to spank and rub her crotch.
Admit to me that you like it, or I will stop, I demanded in a playful voice. Please, please don't stop she pouted as I teased and spanked her. I could tell that she had left all of the troubles in her life at the front door, and was finding the freedom and pleasure that she so desperately craved. I pulled her panties up into the crack of her ass as to expose more flesh for me to spank, and she was turning red.
I place one knee on the bed, reached around from the front side of her, and found her clit with my left hand. As I spanked her ass with my right hand, I controlled her arousal by rubbing her clit with a sexually frustrating on... off... again pattern. She began begging me not to stop and to please allow her to cum. It was my specific intention to deny her an orgasm on our first meeting, but somehow I sensed how desperate her need was to climax in this way. It felt as though years of unfulfilled fantasies had built up in her, and had culminated in this very moment. I began spanking harder and harder and started keeping a steady pace on her soaking wet clit. Her screams were screams of joy, and her trembling body gave away the intense pleasure that she was finding.
Another hour passed before our session was over, and we explored other activities as well. After our meaningful exchange, I instructed her that at any future meetings she would be told what to wear, how to perform sexually, and that she would be considered to be a "treasured slave".
If you are a woman who is reading this, and would like to meet a man who views Dominance and submission as a healthy practice, then drop me a line and tell me about your self. How did reading this story make you feel?