my self-identity and sense of self-worth are directly at odds with my sexual fantasies...should i say my sexual identity?  it really, really hurts my head.  i cant imagine how it is going to be resolved.  it truly sucks.

some profiles on this site are simply too funny to be believed.  i ran across one today.  the picture is of a gorgeous teenager.  she included her 'rules' in the text along side the picture.

rule one states that nobody should approach her empty handed.  a tribute or gift is required.

rule two states that "the more proof you require of my status, the harder i will be to please".

please tell me that there aren't men so stupid as to fall for this crap.  if so, please have those men contact me because i am secretly a 20 year old hottie with an insatiable sexual appetite who lusts after lonely men.

are slaves and/or subs by definition pathetic?  are they all necessarily losers?  i see that language in a lot of profiles of various dominant women.  i understand that much of that language is a result of the fact that humiliation is among the most common kinks in the bdsm world.  in fact, i must admit that i personally get off when i am called a loser.  that said, if anyone were to do an objective analysis of my station in life, i can't imagine they wouldnt want to trade places (if i do say so myself).  i ain't exactly on food stamps, i have a number of great friends and family members, i am pretty smart (again, if i do say so) and am not altogether tough on the eyes.  when i first started to learn about bdsm, the stereotypical submissive was the very succseesful business man who had so much pressure in his vanilla life that he needed to relinquish control.  does that make one a 'loser'?  one last thought: there would be no tops without a consenting bottom.  thanks for reading.

If You are posing as a Female Domme on this site, should You be stealing pictures from the web of the hottest girls?  Perhaps it would make sense to pose as a 7 out of 10 rather than a 10 out of 10.  And the idea that You have pictures on Your profile but won't go on cam might be the funniest thing in the world.  If You are going to be a scammer, be a smart one at least.

How many profiles would be on this site if only honest and genuine peope were allowed?  LOL, there would be 20 people from around the country sending messages to one another.

 The Women only want my money.  Some are silly enough to demand a gift card or tribute with their first message.  Are there some men who are that dumb or desperate? 

The men are mostly wankers.  They are typing with one hand (think aout it).  I can imagine the messages they send: "i swear to tribute You if You will only spend the next 30 minutes providing pain staking detail as to how our session will go".

 If anybody needs a sissy maid who is safe, sane , discreet and not-so-bad-looking, please hit me up.