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First and foremost, I want to make it clear that I am not new to the BDSM lifestyle... or to the kinds of games that are played on sites much like this one. I am not here to play games, I am here to learn, to teach, to amke friends within the community, and to seek a woman with the courage, strength, passion, and willingness to serve. If you share any of these interests, or are interested in discussing the possibility of service, then feel free to message me.
Now that I have gotten that out of the way, I will share a bit more personal information. One thing that you will notice, if you look at my profile, is that I have not filled out the interest questionnaire. I consider such things trivial and a waste of time and effort. You are not going to learn anything about me, nor I about you, from looking at a bunch of boxes on a checklist.
I have a wide variety of interests, both within the BDSM lifestyle and the vanilla world. While there are too many to cover here, I will try to pick out the highlights. For my vanilla interests, I enjoy outdoor activities, social gatherings, reading, writing, and games, as well as good food and drink in a nice atmosphere. As far as my biggest interests within the context of BDSM, I enjoy bondage, powerplay, and a host of other things.
I am not a bedroom Dom, and I am not looking for a bedroom sub. While I am a very intensely sexual person, it is not my only interest. If I merely wanted a playmate, I would be looking elsewhere. I am seeking a woman who is willing to grow with me, both as a sub and as a person, to explore all that two people have to offer one another, and to take from the world around them.
I want to make it clear right off the top that I have rules about how a person is to address me if they want a positive response. Contrary to what most men demand, my expectations are very simple... If you want me to take a message you send me seriously, you WILL NOT address me with any honorific, but by my Collarme handle, at least until and unless I have shared my name with you, or you have submitted yourself to me.
The reasons for this rule are simple... Those terms hold a deep and very special significance to me, and I will not have them bastardized by the tongue of a stranger. For someone to address me so means, to me, that they willingly offer themselves in service. If this is not the case, then do not speak so to me. I know that many men insist on being called "Lord," or "Master," or "Sir," by anyone who writes them. Not so with me.
I also believe in giving the same respect that I demand from others, so should you message me, please include a little blurb about your own preferred method of address, if you have one. Those who do not give me other guidelines will be addressed by my standard titles... "Sir" for other dominant males, "Ma'am" for dominant females, "boy" for submissive males, and "girl" for submissive women.
You may also have noticed that I do not use self-honorifics, such as the capitalized first person referential ("Me"). The reason for this is that, while I treat others with respect and insist on the same in return, I see no point in putting on airs. If you, in addressing me, find me to be worthy of that level of respect, then by all means, address me so. I learned long ago the difference between confidence and arrogance, and I have no patience for the latter, whether in myself or in others.
This is not the final form of my profile... I am creating this as a quick point of reference. I will be adding more details when I get out of work, and over the course of the next couple of days, as well as adding photos, here and there (need to get some current ones taken). Meantime, to one and all, I wish good health, happy times, and a positive experience here on Collarme.
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To all of those who have written to/spoken with me since this account was created, thank you. It's been a wonderful experience. To those who have popped in and out with no warning (and you know who you are), you might want to learn the words 'hello' and 'goodbye'... They help.
I am, for the time being, no longer actively looking for a sub. There is someone that I am interested in realtime, and until I have given that situation a chance to develop however it will, I am not interested in another relationship possibility.
This does not mean that I am unwilling to chat, with those who just want to talk socially. I still enjoy that sort of thing, so feel free to message me if you so desire. Good luck to A/all in their own quests here on Collarme. |
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Okay, so... it's early in the morning where I am, and I still can't sleep. I thought I would pass the time by posting a little fantasy I had earlier. I don't know WHY it turns me on so much, but I figure, what the hell... I haven't really gone into anything sexual in my profile; I may as well save that for the journal. So, here it goes.
The first part isn't very specific, so I decided to make it arbitrary. I am sitting in a nice recliner, doing something that is mentally engaging. Say, reading a book, or playing a game, or watching a movie... something solitary and requiring attention on my part. All, by the way, activities that I enjoy. Let's say, for the sake of this fantasy, that I am reading a book.
A woman who has submitted herself to me, and been trained to serve me, comes home. Perhaps she has been out at work, or visiting with friends, or attending college. Whatever. Doesn't matter, for the purpose of this fantasy. She comes home, and despite the fact that she is used to a warm greeting when she arrives in our home, I ignore her. Completely. Utterly. I am absorbed in my book. Lost to the world.
"Good evening, Master," she says, but I do not reply. I am not even reading the individual words, now, merely skimming through the same page over and over again, studiously ignoring all attempts that my girl makes to get my attention. Gradually, she becomes a little agitated, wanting the recognition she has grown accustomed to.
Slowly and seductively, she strips for me, knowing how pleasing the sight of her is to me, but I pay her no mind... at least, not that she is aware of. While I continue to pretend to be absorbed in my reading, the sight of my girl stripping for me is intensely arounsing... But I am not going to let HER see that, oh, no.
When she sees that I am still not paying any attention to her, my girl begins to feel ignored. She walks up behind me, massaging my shoulders and pressing her breasts against the back of my neck as she murmurs in my ear, "Master, why won't you talk to me? Your girl has missed you." I continue to peruse my book, however; for all that she knows, I am completely focused on my reading. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
In desperation, she kneels before me, reaching out with a tentative hand to stroke my hardening cock through my pants. When I neither show signs of pleasure, nor reprimand her for touching me unbidden, she gets bolder, and takes me out of my pants, sliding her hot, wet mouth over my entire length, sucking and licking vigorously. Despite the awesome pleasure that overwhelms me when she does this, I continue to ignore her.
Finally, I can keep up the pretense no longer, and grab her roughly, pulling her sweet lips away from me as I kiss her with loving savagery, throwing her onto the couch and taking her, my book discarded, as I explore all of the ways that my devoted girl can please me, and the ways in which I can please her in turn. As I ravish her, I murmur in her ear what a sexy submissive she is, and how much she pleases me... Just so she knows her Master was only baiting her earlier.
I don't know why this particular fantasy gets me off so much, but it does, so I thought I would post it here. Feel free to comment, though I don't expect anyone to read this all the way through, LOL. Still, if some of you do, I would love to hear your insights/opinions. I love comparing notes. ~chuckles~ |
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