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I just moved to the "heartland" from California, and I think I've settled in enough to begin looking for someone special. On the west coast, it's fairly easy to find people associated with the "lifestyle" and I'm curious to see if it's the same here.

I'll add more to this profile as time goes by, but I'll put a few bits of info into this so that someone won't say I'm ignoring the profile (lol).

I have nearly 10 years experience in the lifestyle, but I don't consider myself experienced. I believe that there is always more to learn and experiment with, and I'm not sure if anyone ever becomes a true expert.

I'm seeking a special submissive who understands that the mind is just as important as the physical aspects of this. Also, the person I'm looking for would laugh if someone sent her a first note saying, "Get on your knees, bitch." A Master should earn the respect of a submissive, and no submissive should immediately jump to his orders until he has earned that respect.

I suppose I'm different from some Masters in that I also believe that romance and sensuality are part of the lifestyle. A candlelit room, the feel of thin silk on bare skin, the sensual feel of fingertips tracing the outline of your nipples as you're blindfolded and bound, and the passion of a kiss are all parts of bdsm ... the submission of power and control to a Master is part of the lifestyle, but it can be done while still including romance and sensuality.

I've probably said enough as a beginning to this profile. If you have any questions, please feel free to drop me a note (and, yes, I will answer all notes). I'll also provide a picture if you're interested, but I'd prefer not to post one on this site right now until I see what it's like in the "heartland."

John
Ranchette
 
 Age: 25
 Haverhill, Massachusetts