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Before I tell you about me, ask yourself these few questions
do you believe that SM doesnt necessarily mean sadistic and masochistic... but that it can and should mean sensual magic?
do you understand that while discipline is certainly part of training, it need not be harsh and cruel, or even only physical? do you accept that the collar you feel can be vastly stronger than the one you can actually touch? do you truly know that words can be more painful than any whip, but also more soothing than any touch that the space between your ears can be the source of your greatest pleasures, both given and received? does the following speak to you? i do not want to be the leader, i refuse to be the leader. i want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. i want a man lying over me, always over me. his will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. i dont mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically but as a woman, oh, god, as a woman i want to be dominated. i, with a deeper instinct, will choose a man who compels my strength, who will make enormous demands on me, who will not doubt my courage or my toughness, who will not believe me naive or innocent, who will have the courage to treat me like a woman.
anais nin
do you seek a man who knows what he wants and will lovingly take it, who seeks a relationship devoted to his pleasure...and yours...without being abusive?
After several decades of varied BDSM experience, its now time for me to find people who more closely share my points of view about both alternate and vanilla lifestyles.
I am widely traveled, well educated, entrepreneurial, and actively involved in international and domestic real estate developments. I dont want a doormat or someone lacking a brain, but do seek someone with the intellectual ability to mentally challenge while still accepting final decisions...attributes that usually come with some years of maturity. And, especially, one person with whom I can share a love of life.
The woman I seek encompasses not just attractive physical features but also spirit, kindness, intelligence, curiosity and her own opinion.
The best way I can describe what I seek to create is a loving domestic discipline type of relationship with a healthy dose of kink. There will be training, correction, and guidance, but never abuse, all based on a long term relationship with an emotional, intellectual and physical connection that accentuates my lovers desire to please her man.
I have no desire to punish, but will never hesitate to do so...as long as my lover understands the reason. I have no qualms about inflicting pain, though more likely, the sort of pleasurable pain desired by my partner. I would never damage my most cherished possession.
No, you may not be a TRUE pain slut, but you understand that a bit of red always adds something to ones cheeks
I believe that submission is a need to satisfy, not a gift to give...and that loving domination is the complement, the source of satisfaction of that need.
To me, this is the true nature of the lifestyle Treat someone with respect, kindness, romance, yet aggressively take what you crave and give with all your heart.
It has been my experience that most women have a little girl inside them but that they rarely feel they have the safe space in which to let that little girl come out and play. It takes a special relationship, one that recognizes the needs of the little girl (even if that is not tobe a true little), to be cared for and about, to be cherished and loved, to be permitted and encouraged to be as young as she really feels. It also requires a complementary relationship so that the Daddydom can really feel free to be the loving Daddy while still being strong.
My well-worn passport indicates an age older then my appearancemost people take me for mid fifties.
I live alone in Park Slope, Brooklyn, New York one block from 585 acre Prospect Park.I generally work at home, with a very flexible schedule.
If you are tired...as am I...of the silly on-line games playing, of communicating with people who dont know what they want if you are put off by people who just want to...or can only... exist in cyberspace...then contact me. But please, if you arent serious, arent real, then please look elsewhere on collarspace or craigslist or wherever you feel at home. you will find what you seek...but not here.
Dont focus too much attention on any laundry list of interests no list can really present the complexities of our lifestyle.
I do hope to hear from you.
Stay hungry, stay foolish...and enjoy your journey
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