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ParadoxHucow

Paradisos
Male Dominant, 35, heraklion
Female Submissive, 47
paradox
Male Switch, 39, Huntsville, Alabama
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About ParadoxHucow

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IF she chooses to start conversing with You and wanting to get to know You then REMEMBER, she CHOSE to try to move forward and see if We are fit. Also REMEMBER that she HAS NOT accepted to be Your property. DO NOT DEMAND, ORDER or TELL her to do something for You. IF You ask AND she chooses to do what You asked it is because she is getting comfortable and trusting You some to do what You ASKED. This DOES NOT mean You own her. When AND IF she says Yes to be owned by You, THEN AND ONLY THEN will she 100 percent obey and comply with everything You Demand, Order or Tell her to do. *****UNTIL THEN SHE DOES NOT BELONG TO YOU NOR IS SHE YOUR PROPERTY *****

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****UNDERSTAND that if you cannot COMMUNICATE on this platform, HOW do you expect me to believe that you will communicate in real life?? UNDERSTAND that once communication has been established here AND I FEEL comfortable, I will ask for an alternate means of communication. BUT if you cannot keep a somewhat continuous line of communication or your communication skills are lacking I WILL wish you well and move on. This lifestyle is NOT a game for me and I IDEALLY would like TPE 24/7/365 BUT life dictates on whether that is achievable But as much as D/s can be implemented. So if you ARE married or attatched look elsewhere. I am NOT going to be 2nd fiddle to your relationship issues. IF you think i am demanding, then think about what you want, require or desire. I can most certainly say that what you want is more than what I am requesting AND should already be a basis of ANY relationship****




HARD LIMITS

NO LIARS


NO FISTING No children No intentional blood letting
No intentional damage No cutting No public play unless with liked minded lifestylers
Nothing that is illegal or may incur incarceration No permanent damage No beastiality
No scat No water submersion No sex with others unless discussed AND with condoms
NOT a punching bag OR kicking post NO Slapping
No Poly household No kneeling for prolonged periods of time (bad knees from sports injuries in her youth)

Being pushy OR Being Informative?

 

This lifestyle is complex and vast. Which requires Communication, Understanding, Communication, Agreement, Communication, Patience, Communication and Time 

Why is it difficult to ask questions without being classified as being pushy?

Or ask questions and be deemed as Topping from bottom?

As in ANY relationship whether vanilla or not, Communication is vital, or so I thought 

Dont you want to know who is serving you and what their kinks are and feed off their best assets and work on their worst? Or vice versa, don't you want to know who you are serving and know that they are there to build you up and not cause you harm, physical, mental or emonotional intentionally 

Goodness gracious for the love of god enough with the fakes and weekend dominants already 

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